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Q: Okay, i have this friend who has been my friend since like kindergarden....but this year she has changed so much its unreal. A lot of our other friends think that same thing, but we are not sure if we should tell her or not, cuz we dont want her to get pissed off at us. She is like pretty much obsessed with this guy and yet doesnt want to admite it, and that's one of the reasons why she has changed so much. Its because of a guy. Now tell me, do you think that we should talk to her about this or should we jsut leave it the way it is? WE care a lot about her and dont want to stop being her friend but this is really getting out of hand...so what do you think we should do??
well talk to her about it... maybe she doesnt realize you guys think this way. and im sure she wont get pissed... hope i helped!
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Q: I have a friend that I have pretty much grown up with but when were with other people she is a total jerk to me. When were just hanging out by ourself she is a great friend..... some people say shes two faced but idk...
she is seriously two faced and you dont need someone like that... hope i helped !

Q: Ok I have a friend(or so I thought). I found out that she likes my boyfriend. She's always trying to get his attentiuon and stuff and she's even tried to break us up a few times. I love my boyfriend a lot and I know that he loves me. But this girl worries me. Sometimes he even gives her the attention she wants, and he says he doesn't mean to. Is this girl really my friends? And does my boyfriend love me as much as he says he does?

Thanks Kaitlynn!
I Love You.
no she isnt... shes only using you to get to your bf... sorry to say... and even if he says hes not trying to give her the tyme of day, i think he is... i mean i dont wana break you guys up but thats just what i think... hope i helped ! xoxo

Q: Ok so have this friend that my mom doesnt want me to hang around with anymore. She's ben my best friend for like ever and i dotn want to stop being her friend. My mom doesn't understand that. And i keep trying to explain it to her, but its just not working. THis friend of mine is like one of htose things where you say "I dont know what i would do with out you!" type of deals. And my mom doesnt understand that either. My friend and I still talk all the time on the phone all the time and she was at my house two days this week. My moms not too happy about it. How should i tell my mom that my firned and i arent going to stop being friends and to stop yelling at me every time shes here or i takl to her??

SiGnEd,
I need help
just be like well me and miranda are going to be friends no matter what you say so can you like chill? lol well you know thats what i would say so... well talk to me in private about it ok? hope i helped a lil!

Q: okay....lately one of my best friends is acting weird...she used to be so hyper and fun and punkish...i guess thats how you would describe it...lol but anyway, nows shes all sad and angry and never talks to anyone as much as she used to. and i know your gunna say to talk to her about it but people are so fucking stuborn that you can say as many things to them as you want and they never do shit about it. so give me something other than try and talk to her about it. k? bye bye ~*~hugs+kisses~*~
WELL THE FiRST THiNG THAT COMES TO MiND iS TO TALK TO HER/HiM ABOUT iT... ii UNDERSTAND THAT YOU DONT WANT TO HEAR THAT BUT JUST TALK TO ME ABOUT iT ON AiM OR MY EMAiL AND iLL TRY TO HELP BETTER ! KAiTLYNN !

Q: There is a girl who I used to be best friends with and have known her for sort of a long time now. Well, now she is annoying to me and I don't like her as much because she annoys me and she thinks she's cool and acts really stupid sometimes. I get into fights with her a lot and so I don't talk to her. I don't know what is going on, but I don't really know what to do. What do you think? (sorry this is long)
WELL THiS PAST YEAR AT SCHOOL ii WAS LiKE THis WiTH MY FRiEND CASSiE... SHE WAS SO ANNOYiNG AND SHE ACTED REALLY STUPiD SOMETiMES... BUTii TALKED TO HER ABOUT iT AND NOW WERE OK... ii THiNK YOU SHOULD TALK TO HER ABOUT iT... TELL HER THAT SHE CAN GET ON YOUR NERVES SOMETiMES... THAT SHOULD WORK ! HOPE ii HELPED ! ~xoxo~

Q: I have this best friend every time we go some where people are all over her to me shes a dork But shes my friend I don't know what to do
THiS PROBLY iSNT GOOD ADViCE BUT YOU SOUND JEALOUS... MAYBE YOU SHOULD JUST LET HER BE... SORRY ii COULDNT BE OF MORE HELP! ~xoxo~

Q: Yuo know what...I really thionk yuo did help...bc you know what....this is one of your friends...and actually it was our problem, I just didn't know if it was really true....hope you can figure out who I am
iS THiS CASSiE ??? CUZ iF iTS NOT THEN ii RELLE HAVE NO CLUE...... JUSS TELL ME !

Q: hey, I have a friend who I thought was one of my best. but now I'm not so sure. she got really upset when I started goign out with my b\f because she liked him.and now nothing has been the same between us and I'm not sure if she even likes me anymore. Please help me!
WELL iF YOU TALK TO HER ABOUT HOW YOU FEEL iT SHOULD HELP... MY FRiEND AND ii WERE LiKE THAT FOR A WHiLE AND THEN ii TOLD HER HOW ii FELT AND WE BECAME FRiENDS AGAiN ! iF YOU NEED MORE JUST ASK ! HOPE ii HELPED ! ~xoxo~

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