(( LEFT IN PICTURE))hey yall.. My name is kelsey, and i am 14 years old. I just moved to arizona from southlake texas! i miss all my friends soo much, but i kinda like it up here to :) Im really good at giving advice.. so ask my anything you want..
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So my ex, Eric [of over a year] is acting strange. Lately, he's like.. "since you have Bob. you don't need me around anymore haha" Yeah, I have a boyfriend. But my ex has a girlfriend [keep that in mind]
And today.. Eric kept saying "you probably were talking to Bob while you were doing your homework"
and i kept saying no because Eric got online first so... I talked to him first.
I told him I wanted to hug him today.. when I saw him today. But Bob was holding me [it was raining] and Eric got to hug me quickly [but I didn't have time to hug back] so he says "i guess it wasn't much of a hug if you don't remember"
and it sort of goes along with.. what he said earlier "it's okay. i know your boyfriend is more important than just a friend. and don't say he's not because you know he is"
I've been with this boy for about 3 weeks and I don't know him well. Eric.. Of course I care about him. He's one of my best friends and he's very important to me. My friends come first.
I keep telling Eric he's important to me over and over.. he keeps telling me NO or that I'm wrong. I talk to Eric almost every day online. [Just like my boyfriend] and I go to see the BOTH of them when I visit their school.
I care about the both of them and I'm trying not to play favorites. Even though I should be closer with my boyfriend. I don't really know what to do. I don't want to come off as a bitch while saying , yeah I like you more than my boyfriend.. only because I've known Eric for years already and I feel more comfortable around him.
Why is my ex acting like this? What does it mean? (link)
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All it means is.. thats his way of making you say that you DO care. its like when a girl is like "i am so ugly" usually shes just fishing for you to say shes not. and he pretty much still has feelings for you.. strong ones
hope i helped
xo
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i'm going to a different high school next year and im afraid that my friends and i are going to drift apart. well, we kinda have...i call them all the time, but they never answer or return my phone calls. should i keep trying to save our friendship, or is it basically over? (link)
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well.. i think that you should just try and talk to him/ her about the whole deal, and they will understand. and yall can still hang out on the weekend and stuff!! good luck!
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