interests: music, boys, Stanford University, algebra, chemistry, drawing, guitar, piano, track and field, french
E-mail: ilovesugar13@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: SC
Occupation: Student
AIM: spelledasleep
Member Since: August 20, 2004
Answers: 8
Last Update: August 26, 2004
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My friend, lets call her Sarah, is completely obsessed with her ex boyfriend. Ive been trying to tell her forever to try and get over him! Hes been such a jerk to her, and he broke up with her to immpress one of his friends. How low is that? How can i get it through her head that she can do better, and stop wasting her time dwelling on the past? (link)
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I just want to say..I have been on both sides of this dilemma..just recently on Sarah's side. It does get a little annoying when you know that this boy is such a jerk and he isn't worth it...but a lot of times the person who he used doesn't get it. When I was trying to get over my ex i was so thankful for my friends who stuck with me even when they wanted to shake me for being so miserable. Be a good friend and be there for her...don't be afraid to keep telling her it will get better and he doesn't deserve her, but mostly just be there. the obseesion will fade, but getiing upset with her will just make her feel worse. What she needs right now is a lot of love and patience. Hope it helps!
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This doesn't really fit under any category...I just wanted to say that you sound like someone who gives good advice and tells it like it is. You've only answered 3 questions so I hope you a big advice-giver in the future! I found you because of the ears question and I just wanted to say that you're the kind of person I'd want to get advice from. Keep it up! (link)
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Wow. Erm..thanks!
I'm rather modest, too..but thanks. I love being made to feel special. Hopefully starting school won't keep me too busy. Keep checking in guys.
~Rebekah~
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