i just graduated from high school. im one of the most mature ppl i know in my agee group and sometiems even out of my age group. i had a hard childhood and had some pretty unfortunate things happen to me in life but they only made me stronger. i love helping ppl and giving advice whenever i can and i may not tell u waht u want to hear but i will tell you waht u need to hear. so if u have any questions just send me an email or something.
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ok i got this girl i kinda like but im afraid to commit to a relationship caus she not the most good looking girl but i stil llike her anyway we always hang out and we have play around sexually but last night i planned for us to hang out and she text me the morning i go to pick her up to go fool around and says i got a b/f and now she being a bitch and acting like the perfect girl and i think it gets to me not cause i cant do anything with her but i think i like her and i dont want to see her with another guy please help me out
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well first you need to decide if you really want to be with a girl that had a boyfriend all this time and you had no idea. that seems kinda scandalous to me on her part. but maybe you need to put your attention on another girl cause if you do want to be with her, then losing ur attention might get to her and jealousy could take over and if not then you have the oppotunity to meet someone new... even if she does get jealous, you might like this someone new better ;)
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ive been friends with my friends for quite a while and they never really cared how i dress and none of them say anything but i know they talk about it behind my back and sometimes when we all hang out my best friend tells me shes not trying to be mean but " kind of dress like us cause i dont want the other kids to not like us" and i dress in dark clothes alot but not like gothic but when i am with them all i feel kind of out of place because they all wear like abercrombie and i wear like band shirts and stuff. should i dress more like them? i like the clothes they wear and i wear it sometimes cause i think its cute but i jsut never really shop there. what should i do? (link)
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you should never have to feel like you cant be yourself and if they are your friends thye should never ask you to be anyone but yourslef... its honestly rude for them to say anything... so what you dress different then they do, they should be friends with you for who you are not by how you dress
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she gave these 2 peole best friend necklaces and not me they were showing them off and they exclude me what do you think (link)
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i dont think they aren intentionally trying to hurt your feelings, but maybe they feel a stronger bond with each other. it doesnt mean that they dont want to be friends with you though. try not to worry about it too much and one day youll be as close with them as they are together
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First of all thanks for pay attention. Second you gave me a right answer. Yes, masturbation makes sex less satisfying if we do it too much and its not harmful cause masturbation fulfils sex desire which is natural.You raelly seem intelligent! (link)
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thanks! glad i could help. im glad someone thinks im intellegent. lol
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Heres the thing. My friends dont like my bf at all. Its to the point where i cant have them hanging out together. All my friends do in school is talk about us in a bad way. about how we spend a lot of time together and how they dont like him. it feels like they arent happy for me and they want me all to themselves. its a frustrating situation. i can only see him on weekends and he doesnt go to my school. so heres the problem: i have been neglecting my friends. butt i dont want to give up any time on the weekends because i can only see him then! and maybe a day or 2 during the week IF im lucky. : / (link)
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i'm just went through the same thing. you have toplan time to hang out with your friends separatly then your bf. have girls night every other weekend and hang out with your bf more on the weeknihgts if you know your going to want to hang out with your frineds on the weekend. i know you want to spend all of the time possible with your bf but you really need to let your friends know theat your always going to be there and they come first because your bf might not always be aroung but they will, and i know you want to keep them both in your life as long as possible, dont plan things where they will have to be together unless its like your birthday or something. it may be hard at first but youll get used to it and it will get easier. hope i can help.
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