What's going on? my name is Heather and im here to give advice to anyone who needs it. giving advice has always been something that i like to do. my friends tell me that im pretty good at it. i will do everything i can to help you in everyway. im 19 and pretty much like any other 19 year old. i love hanging out with my friends, going to the movies(star wars is my absolute favorite) and listening to all kinds of music like rap, hip hop, rock, pop, country etc. softball is by far my most favorite sport and i try to play it all year, even in the snow. i might be young but i think even at younger ages going through things is what molds you. if you hold it inside it will just make your life horrible to deal with. My birthday is in April and I love the spring. im pretty sure my experiences will help you with yours and i have no problem sharing them all with you. please be polite and not rude. im here to help not take your anger out on. get started by clicking ask a question above or click ask me for advice below this column. leave me comments and rate me on my advice giving. i hope i help! thank you
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sorry this is sort of long!! i have been best friends with my friend sammie since about 7th grade. now i'm a junior & i'n not quite sure what to make of our friendship anymore. we are not in any of the same classes this year& we never see each other in the hallways either, so basically i don't see her in school. in the beggining of the year we still did stuff together, but she made a new friend, jane, who she does alot of things with. now i'm not against her making new friends (i have made new ones too) & jane is a very nice person, but i feel almost as if they are beocming best friends. it seems as though they are together alot, & even when there not i deffinetly feel as though sammie & i are nowhere near as close as we use to be. today i finally saw her in the hall, and all she said was hi (it was during her lunch period, so she could have stopped to chat). i'm not so sure if it's her i miss or what. i still like her & want to ocntinue to make an effort for our friendship so i invited her over for new years - last week she said she'd ask her parents, but neevr got back to me. i don't know where this friendship is going & i would just like an opinion on what you make of the situation or if you have any advice on what i should do to either make more of an effort or if you think i should let the friendship go. i really do like sammie, so it's not like she's mean & i need to get rid of her. thanks for your help! (link)
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i know what you're going through. my friend just moved to a school close by, but its still hard to stay in contact, even at your own school. you have to come right out and ask her what the deal is. if you dont you will be guessing for who knows how much longer. ask her whats been up and how come you guys dont really hang out anymore. you will be able to tell by her reaction if she cares to hang out with you or not. if she just is like oh well ive been busy and gives no effort to chill, then maybe you should just let it go until maybe a time when she asks you to hang out, but dont let it get to you. if she seems like she does really care but has really been busy then tell her to make some time or plan ahead. im sure you guys can work it out but its not always easy. im sure if you talk with her it will make things easier because its all out in the open. i hope i helped!
ox Heather
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I went out to the movies with my frineds for my birthday. No one really talked to me they just talked to each other and left me out. How do i become more popular to make them want to tlak to me all the time especially on my birthday? (link)
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i used to be like that myself. its hard, trust me i know. i would listen to conversations that my friends had and try to crack jokes whenever possible and that really caught their attention and made them want to talk to me more because everyone needs a laugh. but when times get serious, act serious. if someone is asking for advice that maybe you could give out, be there and give them support and they will see that you can be funny but serious when need be. think of events that all your friends would like to do together as a group so they will have to include you. make it fun but simple. the smallest things you do, everyone notices, but be yourself. take your greatest traits and use them for your advantage. everyone will see that your a great person to be with. xo .:Heather:.
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