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hey! well my birthday is commin up this weekend and i have no idea what i want to do! i know i have to go out to eat with the family first but there is this big thing at school that goin on called relay for life and everyone is goin well most but im not since it was on my birthday! soo i really dontknow what to do i dont want to have a party..or just a few friends over cuz they are all gonna be at that thing and plus theres nothing to do at my house! i just wanna have fun i mean its gonna be my sweet 16!! :] any ideas? i dont have many friends sadly..but i have some!! but like i said theyre gonna be gone on fri and sat! and do you think i should do something with the ones that arent going? but what do you think i should do..have any suggestions?!

i'll rate 5 for anyone who helps me think of somethiN!
thanks so much.
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pamper yourself! you don't need others to have fun! i HATE parties.

have a nice bath with sweet smelling bubbles, dress pretty and go out for the day. go shopping, get your hair done, have something nice for lunch.

think of your 16th as the start of your mature life, and make it all about you! :)

have fun!

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dose a girl like me her name myra gama and i'm reyes maldonado

i'm not psychic, i can't give you an answer just based on your names...

think about the way she treats you, the conversations you have. is she nice to you or not? does she seem to appreciate your company? does she ever flirt with you? these should give you some hints.

if you're still unsure, try flirting with her a little and see her reaction ;)

good luck!

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My friend's birthday is coming up. She'll be 15. I asked her what she wanted and she said she wants me to kiss her (we aren't going out). I only see her once a day at school and we just hug, say hi, and go eat at our different tables. She said she wants me to kiss her on the lips. When and how should I kiss my friend?

sounds like someone likes you!

on her birthday i suggest something like greeting her with a happy birthday, put your arms out for a hug but keep her in your arms and look into her eyes. if she doesn't pull away then lean in and kiss her, softly. lips are the key to a great kiss, not tongue.

good luck ^_^

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So.. my friend, whom we'll call stacy, and her boyfriend, whom we'll call sean is what this is about i think. Not so much with sean..but i could be wrong. Stacy for the past 2 months, i just found out has been throwing up her food , and lately she can't hold it down..its a natural thing now, and because she does this, she cuts herself, and cutting herself makes her eat..its a vicious cycle. She wants to tell her mom, but her pregnant sister ran away and her mom is under a LOT of stress, so she doesn't want to put that load on top of it. She knows she has a problem, and i want to help her. But i know i can't do it by myself, she's stubborn. Would it be okay to talk to our schools couselor about this? thanx for any thing you can help w/. Oh, and where sean comes in, i think she's throwing up because of him, she thinks she's too fat? or something maybe? i hope not because he isnt like that. but plz help me. I'm the only one she's told about the cutting

It's great that she understands she needs help. I think the school counsellor would be a great idea, or even better a doctor. Both meetings will be totally confidential, so she doesn't need to worry about extra stress for her mother. And with you by her side to support her, I'm sure she will get through.

If she has the internet, I'd like to suggest a site we use in Australia where she can find advice and speak confidentially to a counsellor online.

http://www.reachout.com.au

best wishes to you and her, stay strong!

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