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my friend always tells me how everyone tells her shes sooo pretty. & like it gets annoying. & like im not jealous, because twice as many people tell me im pretty. so its not like im jealous. i just dont go around telling people, what other people say to me. like she does. so how can i make her stop?? besides saying like i dont care. bc i already tried that.. & well right now i just did & i can tell its turning into a fight. soo yahh


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I hate that sooooooooo incredibly much. My one friend kept doing that to me all last year and I wouldn't know how to react without turning into something mean. I think I might have asked a question like this on Advicenators too?

Well, this is kind of a hard question to answer, because 90% of the time it turns out to be a fight. You could be like, "That's really great that people like you, but I'm not the person you have to convince, ok? You tell me things like this a lot, and it's not an interest of mine to know which person thinks you're attractive. It's not like I write these down. I don't want this to turn into a fight, because I'm trying really hard to tell you what I feel without sounding mean."

Something along those lines? Say it very slow and calm, like a normal conversation. Keep your expression straight and serious, but not like it's obvious that you're pissed off.

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whenever im around people that i dont usually hang out with like new people, i usually get shy.. this always happens so now i am known as the shy girl.. any tips that would help me to get unshy? i have tried to start conversations but sometimes i have nothing to say. and i have always tried to be myself too

If you're about to meet some new people, you have to be confident in yourself. You have to come in the room like you have no care in the world, and people will notice that too. Don't pick at your fingernails or look at the ground, just jump into the conversation and add anything that you can connect to. If you can't connect to anything, say something random like "God, love your bracelet... did you get that at the (so and so) Mall? I could have sworn i saw one just like that in (so-and-so) Store. I don't like that store that much, but that bracelet caught my eye as soon as I passed the window.' Be as talkative as you can, even if it's just a bunch of details. Ask a lot of questions too. People love to talk about themselves. But DON'T BE SOMEONE YOU'RE NOT. Stick to yourself because that will a mess.

That pretty much sums it up. Now get out there!

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hey well its my birthday this weekend! SWEET SIXTEEN! :] and my friend said that there is this hotel party that she was invited to from this other school this saturday..and i really want to go! there is gonna be drinking and stuff but the kid said we can stay there overnight. i just wanna party this weekend and celebrate because you only turn 16 once. the only problem is i got my period late today (tuesday) and it wont be gone by saturday so i dont know what to do! i wear tampons but i dont want to bring a purse to the party at all and i wanna wear flip flops and a tshirt and jeans! so i dont know what to do about my period! and if we stay overnight which we probably will..i dont want to leak! also i will need to bring tampons but where would i put them? im probably gonna be drunk so i dont wanna bring a purse--wont trust it since there will be alot of people and my friend doesnt carry a purse either!! soo what do you think i should do? the only way we can go is if we stay overnight too since we will be drinking and stuff. well thanks!

i will rate 5 for anyone who answers

Hmm, you will definitely need to have tampons in case of TSS. If you're going to be drunk, explain this situation to your friend to keep a little handbag of tampons in a room or by the front desk. The people there will be glad to help out so you can trust them. Or, if you know of someone who is sure not to get drunk, ask them to hold on to it for you or keep it in their car. I doubt carrying a pouch of tampons around with you or in your pocket will work.

Hope everything turns out fine. Have fun =)

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