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ok i have 2 best friends. and now one of them is saying that i dont pay ne attention to her! but thats not true bc now that she thinks that shes dumped me and gone and found new friends and she says that we dumped her. but we never did. i try to talk to her about it but she never changes. and i hate it bc now this is makin tension btwn me and my other best friend. she just wont listen to me and i dont kno what to tell her. she thinks eveything i do and say has to do with my other friend. when i ask her to go to the movies she'll say no then ill figure out later that week that she went to the movies with her "new" friends and just totally ignores me when i ask about it. she says that me and my other friend are the only ones that think that she doesnt talk to us nemore, but actually everyone thinks she changed over this past year. i dont want to lose her as a friend what should i tell her?
PLZZZ HElp me!
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Well since your first best friend has gone and found new friends as well and everything, shes is putting herself in this mess! In a way of saying it, she's starting a fire she cant control, you know? She's in denial about you not leaving her, and I think she just wants attention because that sounds like something someone would do to get attention. Tell her how you feel about her and that you and your second best friend are tryin to include her. If she gets all mad and what-not, then I dont think you want to be friends with someone always negative about ya'lls friendship, but its your choice. A helpful hint...Always try to surround yourself with the type of people you would want to be like. I hope everything works out!!!
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i dont know if i should get a new best friend or not! in the past my old best friend dumped me to be popular. if i heard right, she isnt popular. then i got a new best friend but i just moved here so we barely see each other. now i dont know if i should have 1+ best friends. what should i do?
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of COURSE you can have more than one best friend! I do, I have like 6 of them! If your old best friend dumped you to be 'popular' then she was never your friend at all, and its good shes not popular because she sounds like a jerk anyways. With your new best friend, try to keep in touch with her like with IMs, phone and maybe write a letter, because I know everyone LOVES getting mail!!!
hope i helped!!!
~*sexisarabeara04*~
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