Well.. normally Im a pretty outgoing, like laid-back kinda person.. not too laid-back, but I'm comfortable. Like around my family, and close friends. I'm really energetic and stuff, which is like the complete opposite of how I am in school. I dunno, but in school people usually see me as like a shy, quiet girl when my personality really isnt like that. like sometimes i feel like i shouldnt say some things, when its like my opinion.. i mean i raise my hand in class etc and im a good student, and i dont want to like fail or whatever, but i want to be as easygoing and more comfortable in school like i am in school and stuff, because sometimes it stops me from being friends with people and stuff when i know i'll get along with them and stuff. i guess it takes some time to know me.. and because of my softspoken and quietness in class, i got put in speech cause the teachers couldnt hear me when i could pronounce like all the words. i dont get it.. its like my voice kinda lowers and seems kinda dull and boring when i speak well sometimes, and like everyone in the class hears what i said except the teacher, of course. i mean sometimes i even pretty much shout it, and some kids like mumble and the teacher hears the mumble but apparently is deaf to me speaking?!? like i always have to repeat stuff. i mean seriously.. maybe i should just not care about what people think cuz sometimes i wonder if i say something like really weird i dont want to be labeled like that, when people like my friends really know me and wouldnt judge me like that. and ya i love myself and stuff but i dunno why i do that. i try to stop doing it and be like more outgoing every day, but sometimes i feel less like a kid and more.. like strict and junk, when i dont want to entirely be that way, and like be more flexible and stuff. i guess i'd like tips on how to be like.. more comfortable in school and stuff? or overall. thanks a junks for helping! =]
well in my opinion you just need to see school as a regular everyday thing. You know like communicate with other people. ask them for help give them help. You need to contact with other people and realize that everyone is just like you. everyone has their own fears. When you give an answer in class, you should be proud to say it. say it loud and proud. lolz i'm sounding sorta wierd rite now. Overall, you just need to communicate more and pretend that school is just like your home and your classmates are your sisters and brothers. the teacher...well what can i say, she probably just hates her job lolzz. hope i helped :):)
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I'm a semi-popular cheerleader. I'm in a bunch of classes with some of my fellow cheerleaders who are really popular. I'm pretty good friends with a few, but I barely know the other ones. I really want to get in good with them, because other then them, the rest of the kids are seriously pokemon obsessed ners (no offence) and those just aren't my kind of people. I'm totally myself, but I don't want to look like a wanna bee, any tips?
well since you are really good friends with some of the populars then i guess it's ok. if you want to become more popular. then just act yourself. make yourself be noticed.
hope it helped :)
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hi i have a best friend named jaime. we used to be really good friends until this one girl came along and jaime and her became great friends. jaime is beginning to ignore me completly now and i dunt want our friendship to break. please help me. wat should i do. i don't want to lose my best friend.
well you should go to your friend and tell her how you feel. remind her of all the good times you had before this girl came along and tell her that you really want to keep your friendship strong.
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Alright, I've once already asked advice about this situation ( me and my two best friends hang out and whenever this other girl hangs with us, I always sorta get the boot and feel left out and what not ) and everyone told me to just give her another shot and i've been trying but nothing's happened. S, I'e sort of just not talked to her much and just let everything be. I mean, if she does talk to me, of course I talk back, but I don't try to start any huge conversations with her. But, my friends still invite me into chats with all of us and her and they have us all and her get on the phone together and everything, and I'm pretty quiet on the phone unless I'm talking to either one of my two friends. Now, I don't get how they don't notice and I'm afraid to tell them, because I know my one friend'll probably go and tell her and I don't want to start any drama. What shuld I do? Shuld I just keep doing what I am doing and not really make huge conversation and let it be>
well she is in your possy and stuff but since she is not going through the trouble to get to know you then you should just let it be. just hang out with the rest of your friends as if nothing has changed. you shouldn't let her get to you. don't be afraid to say anything..be your normal self. or another thing is just get to know her more and b her friend.
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I have this friend, me her and 2 other friends had a possy. Then she got a boyfriend and started acting different. She got mean and I got to the point where I didnt even like to look at her. Me and my friends made inside jokes about her. But, the thing is, she still thinks im her best friend, and I don't know how to tell her im not.
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well one thing you should do is go up to her and tell her how you really feel. i mean tell her that you feel she has changed a lot and that you should just be far away friends..not best friends.
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