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My name is Lauren. I can help you out with anything. I'm 5"3.5, Redish Brownish Hair, Brown Eyes, and I'm a Student A Parkway West. If you need anything just help me.

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okay,so my really really really good friend is the best! but we fight alllll the time.. and lately its been really annoying.. we fight over really stupid sstuff and i think its tearing our friendship apart! i really dont want to start not hanging out with her cuz its soo fun when were not fighting. but when we are i hate her!! if ya know wat i mean!! and ugh lately it feels like our friendship is going down the drain, and i diffently dont want that to happen!!

Well maybe you should be telling her this. Talk to her about it. Tell her that you don't feel like fighting anymore with her. You want to be BFF 4 ever. Tell her that you guys should never lie to eachother. Always tell eachother everything. Well hope that helps!
-Lo

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okay well me and this girl arelike in a fight. and i got into a fist fight with her the other day acuttaly... and like we said we were sorry and crap. but she like still brags about winning when she really didnt. and also she started a rumor that i was pregnate wich im not obisouly. and now i dnt know what to do. i think she went a lil to far with it.. don't you.. well please helpme!!

um... well maybe you should sit her down...(i know who this is too just tellin you and who you fighting too)and maybe you should tell her that she didn't win and that she needs to stop sayin shit bout you .... maybe you guys could talk out your feelings at eachother' house...
-Lo

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ok so my friends r like nerds and well their starting 2 be really mean 2 me like saying im stupid and crap and i want 2 sit with the popular peeps at lunch but i dont kno if like they will like be mean 2 me or wut and i was popular at my old skool andi dont kno soo i mean i dont kno if my "friends" are my friends? i mean i just dont kno soo can you tell me wut 2 do?

Well Maybe you could come up to the "popular" people and like start talking to them...maybe try to be friends with them...try to be friends with everyone but if you wanna be friends with the "popular" people try and study what they do and how the act I guess...maybe just be yourself and see

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I have this friend who is like really attached...and its like when I tell her I can't do something with her she gets all sad...and she always asks me to do stuff with her on the weekend and sometimes I want to do stuff with other people but its like I have to keep it a secret from her or she gets all depressed...and then at school its like if I don't say hi to her, or sit by her, she gets like all mad and its drives me crazy..but she is so nice and is my best friend she jsut I don't know..but she has really been getting on my nerves lately...what shoudl I do

maybe you should tell her...like tell her that you already have plans with people if you do...Like maybe she thinks that since you guys don't do anything together she thinks that you need to since your best friends...maybe she just thinks your friends and she wants to be best friends to her mind

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lauren, i want to ask you why you give people such good advice...yet when your in the same situatuation you dont do what yoiu have told others to do......honestly its kinda stupid....i think you need to start taking you own advise.......and christen is right....maybe you should listen to her a little to...i mean shes already gone throu the therepy....and shes dont with it...and shes not a cutter ne more and wouldnt even think twice about doing it again......you need to start listenin to yourself about the advice you give others....and take a little from christen.....i still love you..but i think your starting to scare people

I don't know...

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ok well i just moved here (this is gracie) and i miss my friends a lot like a ton but i dont want to offend my friends here but i want to move bac and i barely seee them and i cant see them more b/c i have stuff to do and i cant just get up and go see them and drive 2 and a half hours every weekend...wat should i do?

Well it's gunna be hard the first year probly. Like alot of people who just moved are gunna miss their friends. I mean like You could call them once and a while vist them every month. I mean it's gunna be hard but you'll get threw it.

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hi im the one who asked you wat i should do b/c i want to be popular. and u said sit at the popular table one week. well what if the popular people dont want me too or...dont except me...i used to be popular (at my other school) but i dont know how to be popular here.. help again

Well maybe if the popular people don't exseped u then maybe you should just hang with you other friends. Maybe you should try sitting there and just start talking about what they are talking about.

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ok well like i totaly switched groups this yr and like everyone in the popular group doesnt like me ne more and i dotn knwo why its really wierd....and like they call me a whore and shit behind my back and im really sick of it...cause i dont do ne thing to them cause i dont rreally talk to em ne more....ive gone to a diff group thats liek actually better and SHOULD be the popular group....cause there actually nice to EVERYONE! even people they hate!!!

love,
popular yet not

Well maybe the gruop that you were in is just popular becuase people mite just thing their pretty, cool, and other stuff like that. I mean stuff happends all the time in middle school. And not to be mean but like I don't really think anyone should be popular. maybe you shouldn't talk to anyone in that group that you were in if you didn' like them. It's just a waste of time.

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ok soo i go to yur school and well i have some wierd friends and i want to be friends with more popular people (im not a geek) but i dont want to hurt my other firends...can you help me!!???

Well maybe you can hang out with both. Eat lunch with the popular people 1 week and like a couple of days of the week u can eat with ur other friends. Then on the weekend hangout with both.

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