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I have a great friend named Erin. We've been best friends since 1st grade, but lately she's been deserting me for her new friends. Now, I'd normally be beaming if she made a few new friends, but I'm just so glum about it now. Her new friend, Bridget, is super mean to me! She sits there and makes fun of me for listening to Jessica Simpson, Ja Rule, Ludacris, you get the picture. She even had the nerve to make fun of my uncle's rock band (FYI my uncle's only 23)! Worst of all, Erin sits there and laughs with Bridget!!! I know that Erin isn't being the world's best friend, but she's just such a nice girl when she's away from Bridget. Bridget's also starting to talk to Erin about cutting herself... See, Bridget cuts herself in choir (I sit right next to her) & wipes her blood on a piece of paper in her planner. In fact, she has a whole page full of blood.... Nasty! She's trying to convince Erin to start doing that. Erin's also yelling at me for not going out with this kid who I don't like, but here she is hooking Bridget up with her own best guy friend, and BRIDGET HAS A BOYFRIEND who's practically in love with her! Help!!!!!! (link)
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Every school you go into you are going to recieve and lose friends and the best ones stay with you. However, the best ones also know what's good and whats bad for you and herself.
Therefore I suggest you seperate yourself from
these people first and take care of yourself.
The perspective you have to see is that you are the only one that matters because what occurs in your life will result in you changing!
As for the love triangle dont worry too much about it, broken hearts are a part of life.
Now for the bleeding thing, I ask that you talk to an adult about it, because what shes doing will not only affect her physically but also emotionally. This is the one factor that could cost a life.
oneindependentwoman
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my guy friend...lets call him gary...he likes to wrestle with me but i dont like it cuz i get hurt most the time and im really bad at it. everytime i finally sit down he tells me 2 get up or he pulls me up and keeps wrestling with me. how can i tell him i dont wanna wrestle without him getting mad or pulling me up and doing it anyway?
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Ouch:
Sounds like your friend has some problems with knowing who can take a bit of hard playing.
This can be really dangerous for both of you both physically and emotionally.
Before either of you get hurt you have to lay down the line, if he continues I think seperating until he gets the point.
Friends are hard to find but they are supposed to help more than point.
Oneindependentwoman
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