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Q: one of my best guy friends, lets just say named steve, just told me today that he tried cutting his wrist tha other night..i saw the cut, it was TINY but still it was a cut..i dunno if he is trying to get attention or if he is serious..because the cut looked like it was from a longggg time ago and he said he just recently had done it..i dunno what to say to him because no matter what, real or not, i have to support him, etc...he is like the happiest pesron i know,but i guess i dont know anymore...help
Just make sure he knows your there for him and ya love him! Theres nothing else you can do. Luck.-EmmaLee

Q: There's this girl in my grade. She really doesn't have any friends, except she persists to hang out with me and the rest of my friends. She's ALWAYS complaining about how fat she is. I tell her that she is not obese, but she merely says, "Oh, God, just shutup, will you? Of course I'm fat." Sometimes I tell her she's not like those obese people, but sometimes I don't say anything. Then she'll say, "So you agree. You think I'm fat?" She gets very much on my nerves. Except the thing is, she kinda is fat. Just like super super chubby, but it's not like she's really obese. Just how do I respond when she complains about her weight?

Thanks. Sorry it is so long, but I really need help. I would really appreciate it.
My friends do this to me all the time and theyre not fat! All i say is "Psh, please shut up your such a twig!" and they laugh it off. So, dont be mean but say something like that. Make your point AND lighting the convo =P!Luck to ya-EmmaLee

Q: My Ex is one of my best friends now and I have a new Boyfriend and He has a new Girlfriend... But today at lunch he pulled me aside and said this:
"If we were together again, like we were at one time, would you try harder to make it workout?" Now This has me seriously confused and I dont know how to take it So I just replied "I dunno" Wat did he mean?
He so wants you back!!!Guys can be hard to read sometimes, but thats an easy one;) hope it works for ya!-EmmaLee

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I love giving advice! I adore my friends more than life itself. Life isnt that great though. I get through day by day and theres nothing wrong with that.I would do all i could to help a person. If they trully needed someone. I hate it when people sit alone, or walk alone. I know what that feels like i was a loner when i was like in 6th grade. No biggie though!

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