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I think my friend is a lesbian, but I don't want to ask. She NEVER has crushes on any guys and if she has, she's never told me. I've caught her looking at girls butts and it's really creepy! One night we had a sleep over but i left some of my clothes at home. I asked to borrow hers but she insisted it would be fine with her if i slept in the NUDE!!!!!
Other times, we've had sleepovers and she'd change right in front of me. Most girls do that, but when i went to change in the bathroom, she freaked! she kept saying "we are both girls, why don't you feel comfortable around me?"
It probably wouldn't be good by saying i thought she wanted to take pictures of me but.....
i've joked around saying "what are you a lezbo?! Haha!" but she puts on like a pity smile and changes the subject.
Once i said it in front of other people and she was quiet for the rest of the night.
HELP!? it's creepy, she's into me!
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So here's the thing, she may be a lesbian, she may not be.
If she IS a lesbian, it shouldn't change any parts of your previous friendship. I know it will be really weird to adjust to that idea. But then again, being a lesbian shouldn't change anything, like I said.
If she isn't, then you may just be overreacting. Like most people below me said, she was probably kidding about most of that, and she may have changed the subject because she was hurt that you'd assume something like that.
Some of the people below me were really rude to you, and I'm sorry about that. I don't think that you're a homophobic bitch at all. I understand what is going through your head. Once you pick up on one strange thing she does, you start to over analyze everything she does. It's totally understandable.
I think what you need to do is really sit down with her and talk to her about it. Really hear her out, and make sure you have a gentle approach, and DON'T jump to conclusions. If she really seems confused by what you thought, you were probably overreacting, and then you two should just forgive and forget. Ok?
I hope I helped and good luck! :)
xoxo
Angell
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