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Hey, I have a real problem! I'm 14/f, and My best guy friend is really awesome, so awesome infact that I actually like him as more than a friend. The problem is, I did before too and I told him then and he (atleast then) liked someone else. I really like him, but I don't want to ruin our friendship!

This is a tough kestion- but first you need to tell him that you like him. say that being friends just isnt enough to you and that you know and like him so much for just being himself. this shouldnt ruin your friendship, because if he ditches you for liking him than hes a real jerk anyways n u dont deserve him. i understand that your afraid, but dont let that stop your feelings for him- or else theyll always b ther! hope i helped n leav more in my inbox bout what happened! ~nyladi~

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I'm going into 7th grade and im the kind of person who has a bunch of ok friends instead of a few close friends. it's hard for me to make friends bcuz mi school only goes up to 7th grade and i'm the oldest student in mi school. My school is very small and there will only b 14 people in my class this year. Every1 in my class has a bff but me! Do u have any advice for making closer friends in mi school? thamks 4 listening,
~ HugsNdKissesCutie

i was in the same excate situation. wat i did was join a bunch of clubs n went to alot of skool activities. there you talk to your ok friends and bond with one another because you all have something in common (play, chess club, yearbook staff, etc.) theres always something to talk about! also, invite your whole class (or most of them) over for a slumber party, back to skool party, halloween party, etc. thats what i do! even though majority of my friends are "ok" friends, thats still gives me the chance to hang out with everyone and find new things about them! hope i helped ~nyladi~

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i didnt know what to put this under but whatever. i want to have a BIG 16th birthday ( im 15 ) my birthdays in july. What should i do? I dont want to have a pool party or anything. But can you give me some ideas..like where to go..if i should stay at home and invite people over or where to have it. ( if youve already had ur 16th birthday reply! ) but if you havent thats alright lol. thanks

if i wur u, i wuld go out clubbin (thurs teen nites at sum places... u can get vip treatment if u call earlier too) then go midnite bowlin wit a bunch of friends... if u got the cash rent a limo to do the travelin but if not thurs always car poolin, hope ive helped ~nyladi~

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ok this weekend i got my hair cut and i went by myself this time when usually i go with my mom. well my hair person is a guy. and idk who to tell ive only told 1 person and they said i should tell my mom but im so scared. well neways he was talkin bout my tan lin efrom my bikini and then he started lookin at it and he pulled my shirt down and by bra out so he could see my whole boob and i tried to pull his hand away but he grabbed my hand and pulled my shirt down even more. i dint knwo wut to do cuz hes a big buff guy and i was scared to do nething. we were the only ones in there so i couldnt do nething. then he kept grabbin my boobs and he unzipped his pants and told me to look and i told him that i didnt want to and he still did. then after he grabbed my chin and kiss me on the lips like 5 times. and hes like tell me u would do me if u were older.. (im 15 hes 32)and i tried to turn away again and he grabbed my chin and said look at me in a mean controlin voice. i felt so uncomfortable and idk who to tell. idk if u would call that molestation or wut. and its horrible bc i cry all the time now, its been 2 days since it happend. and everytime i wash my hair i remember it and i start to cry bc i was gettin my hair done when this happend. im so scared to tell my parents. what should i do????
plz help me im so scared

wow this is sum serious stuff. first, TELL UR MOM. that is the most important thing. next, contact a center that can help u with this bc it sounds like ur in a state of depression. third contact the police. think about it... wat if your not the only person hes done this too?! you need to get this guy out of here bc i know i wouldnt want him touchin my hair... n i mean do this rite now... so i hope u have the phone n ur hand. go!

p.s. its 100% illegal

~nyladii~

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