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ok so i have this bestfriend and we have been best friends for like a year and a half but i have this other bestfriend that has been my friend for like a year and i want to the the year and a hlf best friend that she isn't my number one anymore the friend that i have been friends for a year is but i don't know how to tell her??

first of all what is wrong with you. why are you asking for help on which best friend to chose. you can be friends with both of them and like them both equally without picking a fight by telling your friend that you like someone else better. you could even have both become friends so you would all be best friends. is having two best friends against your religion or something?

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ok i have this relly good friend who always calls herself fat, just because shes not as skinny as the anorexic girls on tv, and it relly bugs me i keep telling her that shes not fat and that i dont like it when she talks like that but she still dose. how can i talk to her and make her see shes not fat at all

this might not sound very helpful but the best thing you can do is wait it out. until her self-concept changes there isnt much you can do to persuade her. BUT another option if you arent very patient is find several flattering photos of her and such and show them to her. point out all the good things about her and hope she listens to you. =]

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Ok, first of all I'm very self concious about the number of friend I have so I was wondering how many is a good amount? Or just any advice on that problem at all?

Next, I'm starting a new school next year and going to camp this year and all that jazz. Do you have any tips on making new friends?

the number of friends you have is not important at all. if you have one best friend but they're everything you look for in a friend and more then be content in that one friend. its the same if you had four best friends. you wouldnt want a ton of friends who you couldnt really confide in.

it is PERFECT that you're going to camp. its kind of like a practice session before you go to school. first of all try and be friendly and if you see someone getting a soda or walking somewhere just go up to them and say hey. you dont have to be like OMG WHAT"S UP MAN. but just subtly introduce yourself. at camp everyones looking for a friend so you shoudlnt have much trouble. just remember to be yourself and if a conversation reaches rough grounds try to change the subject. have fun =]

seyi x3

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