My name is Michelle and I live in Texas! I guess you can say im good at givin' advice cuz if i wasn't i wouldnt have a advice column. I'm a normal 13 year old other then i am a 'wasian'(white and asian) LOL. So of coarse i need advice too but for now I'll be giving out! Ask me a question and I'll try to help you out the best that I can! LuV yA LoTz -MiCheLLe-
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Location: Texas
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Age: 13
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Member Since: May 26, 2005
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I have a friend that falls I think on purpose. She says that she doesn't but she really does! Now she has started to act really stupid and it is so annoying.How do i tell her to stop? We always hang and i am afraid its going to affect our relationship if i do tell her.
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Well im a very clumsy girl and a lot of my friends think that i do it on purpose but i just think its kinda stuck up if you care that much. People do that to have fun, and u might have different ways to have fun, but thats probably her way to have fun and make poeple enjoy her even tough you dont think its enjoyable.
LOVE MICHELLE
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hey. ok it is summer and i wanna hang out with a lotta people. i wanna start hanging out with a certain person but i am scared to invite them to my house. i would much rather have a sleepover at her house first just so i can see what she likes to do at sleepovers. ok well i need help thank you. (link)
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What you need to do is hang out with her without bringing up the subject of sleeping-over. Just try to get use to her being with yea. Then when yall are havin some fun, try bringing up the subject and see if she suggest you sleeping over.
And if you can't then it would be best to see if she can sleepover. -love-mfirefly11
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okay well i have a friend and for like the last year she's been kinda slutty and ditching me alot. All she talks about is guys and what she did with so-and-so @ the mall or w/e. We're still friends but not as good as we used to be. I miss her being...well "her". I think she knows how i feel cuz i kinda confronted her a couple monthes ago but things haven't changed. Should i still be her friend? (link)
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I think you need to give her a reality check and tell her that if she wants to be your friend then stop acting like your the person that is used to be a excuse to get out of the house. Either way, you deserve a better friend. People like that need to realize that by acting that way they loose friends. But try still being her friend because if you think about it, people like that need someone to care about them. Because usually thats how people(girls) start to act like their "easy" because they want to feel wanted and they want attention by people. -Love- Michelle
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im a good friend, as people say. i dont like to be fooled around with and such. sometimes i get so mad cus my friends wont let me do things at there house that i let them do at mine. is this a bad thing to feel? should i just accept that maby they want to take and not give? please help. i rate fives for good advice!! (link)
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Well, they should first treat you like a guest not like someone that has to be over. But maybe show them less gradutitude and maybe they will realize that you want to be treated like you treat them. -love- michelle
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When I was younger, I met a friend online that was a year older than me. We grew totally close, and then like all friendships, we had a fight. She knew I lived near NYC and the day after 9/11 she imed my AOL sn that I had kept the same. Then, I didn't want to get hurt again, so I made the friendship fail. I know this sounds stupid, but I want to find her and talk to her again. Her AOL sn has changed, and I tried asking a site for her new sn but htey neer contacted me back. How can I find her? (link)
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Call her or look her up in the "pages" or on the internet. Thats all i can really say!
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ok i kno this nice guy, we are only friends. everytime he talks about another girl i get all mad at him. do i like him,or am i just protective over him?
signed,
unsure. (link)
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You could say both because if you didn't have feelings for him, you wouldn't be protective. It shows that you care for him. But your the only person that can make the decision whether you like him or not. -Love- MFirefly11
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I was over at my friends house and this dude started calling this girl. She didn't want to talk to him cause he was a crazy stalker. He called 16 times before my friend picked it up and said stop calling. This kid drives from the next county to my friends house to talk to this girl. The girl goes and hides while we try to cool the guy down. This kid goes all around my friends house looking for the girl and finds her in the bushes. He cusses her out and yells. All i did was make the girl leave and hold him off long enough to give them a head start. I then call the girl and her friend to tell them to call the cops if he follows them. Should I have done more. (link)
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Yes, you should of called the cops if the kid was repeatedly calling so you would of stopped the kid of harassing your friend, and coming to her house to harrass her even more.
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