My name is Michelle and I live in Texas! I guess you can say im good at givin' advice cuz if i wasn't i wouldnt have a advice column. I'm a normal 13 year old other then i am a 'wasian'(white and asian) LOL. So of coarse i need advice too but for now I'll be giving out! Ask me a question and I'll try to help you out the best that I can! LuV yA LoTz -MiCheLLe-
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Member Since: May 26, 2005
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I have a friend that falls I think on purpose. She says that she doesn't but she really does! Now she has started to act really stupid and it is so annoying.How do i tell her to stop? We always hang and i am afraid its going to affect our relationship if i do tell her.
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Well im a very clumsy girl and a lot of my friends think that i do it on purpose but i just think its kinda stuck up if you care that much. People do that to have fun, and u might have different ways to have fun, but thats probably her way to have fun and make poeple enjoy her even tough you dont think its enjoyable.
LOVE MICHELLE
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hey. ok it is summer and i wanna hang out with a lotta people. i wanna start hanging out with a certain person but i am scared to invite them to my house. i would much rather have a sleepover at her house first just so i can see what she likes to do at sleepovers. ok well i need help thank you. (link)
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What you need to do is hang out with her without bringing up the subject of sleeping-over. Just try to get use to her being with yea. Then when yall are havin some fun, try bringing up the subject and see if she suggest you sleeping over.
And if you can't then it would be best to see if she can sleepover. -love-mfirefly11
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okay well i have a friend and for like the last year she's been kinda slutty and ditching me alot. All she talks about is guys and what she did with so-and-so @ the mall or w/e. We're still friends but not as good as we used to be. I miss her being...well "her". I think she knows how i feel cuz i kinda confronted her a couple monthes ago but things haven't changed. Should i still be her friend? (link)
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I think you need to give her a reality check and tell her that if she wants to be your friend then stop acting like your the person that is used to be a excuse to get out of the house. Either way, you deserve a better friend. People like that need to realize that by acting that way they loose friends. But try still being her friend because if you think about it, people like that need someone to care about them. Because usually thats how people(girls) start to act like their "easy" because they want to feel wanted and they want attention by people. -Love- Michelle
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im a good friend, as people say. i dont like to be fooled around with and such. sometimes i get so mad cus my friends wont let me do things at there house that i let them do at mine. is this a bad thing to feel? should i just accept that maby they want to take and not give? please help. i rate fives for good advice!! (link)
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Well, they should first treat you like a guest not like someone that has to be over. But maybe show them less gradutitude and maybe they will realize that you want to be treated like you treat them. -love- michelle
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When I was younger, I met a friend online that was a year older than me. We grew totally close, and then like all friendships, we had a fight. She knew I lived near NYC and the day after 9/11 she imed my AOL sn that I had kept the same. Then, I didn't want to get hurt again, so I made the friendship fail. I know this sounds stupid, but I want to find her and talk to her again. Her AOL sn has changed, and I tried asking a site for her new sn but htey neer contacted me back. How can I find her? (link)
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Call her or look her up in the "pages" or on the internet. Thats all i can really say!
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i have liked this guy for ... a year or two, and
i know he likes this other girl. i really want him to like me, but i know that will never happen. but the guy i like is awesome- a really good christian guy that i can trust and talk to and he doesn't ignore me like everyone else.
he's a year younger, and i don't know why, but something about this is tearing me apart, and i can't tell him ... what do i do? (link)
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Well, don't discourage yourself and say that it will never happen. What you need t do is express how u feel and you never know he might like you back. Its better to do it that way so you will never wonder, "What if __________?" At least you would know that were honest and if he doesn't except it then you kno that he really wasnt meant to be with you. -love- MFirefly11
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i kno this guy. we r just friends and i talk to him everyday over the internet. i dont like him but when he talks about other pretty girls i get all mad. do i have feelings for him, or am i just protective over him? please i need your help. (link)
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Like i say for other people. You show both ways for him. Your protective over him because you have feelings for him. Whether it be as a protective friend or more then a friend. But you can only make the decision whether you like him or not. -Love- MFirefly11
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ok i kno this nice guy, we are only friends. everytime he talks about another girl i get all mad at him. do i like him,or am i just protective over him?
signed,
unsure. (link)
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You could say both because if you didn't have feelings for him, you wouldn't be protective. It shows that you care for him. But your the only person that can make the decision whether you like him or not. -Love- MFirefly11
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Hey it is me again the one who asked about the boyfriend problem!
Well tonite he broke up with me and i really loved him! He didn't tell me why! And he won't talk to me! I can't stop crying! I hate it and whenever We belong together by mariah carey cpomes on i just bust out in tears!!!!! Help i am going on vaction saturday!!!
Thnks friz (link)
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Well, like i always say "Any guy thats worth cryin for, won't make you cry." He probably didnt tell you why cuz he probably doesnt have a reason. And he will regret ever hurting u and breaking up with you. You will meet someone completely better. Try tellin something to his face( like something that you didnt like abuot him)It will help you release all the negativity that you are holding inside for this guy and help you realize that you deserve better!
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I was over at my friends house and this dude started calling this girl. She didn't want to talk to him cause he was a crazy stalker. He called 16 times before my friend picked it up and said stop calling. This kid drives from the next county to my friends house to talk to this girl. The girl goes and hides while we try to cool the guy down. This kid goes all around my friends house looking for the girl and finds her in the bushes. He cusses her out and yells. All i did was make the girl leave and hold him off long enough to give them a head start. I then call the girl and her friend to tell them to call the cops if he follows them. Should I have done more. (link)
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Yes, you should of called the cops if the kid was repeatedly calling so you would of stopped the kid of harassing your friend, and coming to her house to harrass her even more.
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Ok, so I have this major confession!! I have a boyfriend, lets call him *Bill and he is super annoying. He wont shut up!! And when he does shut up all he wants to do is to have it w/ me!!! And the thing is, I don't really like him that much cuz im in love with this boy that i met on the internet and I REALLY want to meet him but I can't!!
Thanks,
Debbi
P.s. I rate high!!! (link)
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Well, talk with him and be completely honest with him how u feel. Lying to him and not telling him that you don't like him is wasting his time and yours. You need to be honest though it might be hard to. You never know what might happen but at least you know that you tried to explain to him.
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I just broke up with my boyfriend and i thought it was great for the first week. Then i started to regret what i did and i started to miss him alot. I felt terrible about what i did and i wanted to take it all back. How do i tell him that i want him back without him wanting to reject me for breaking up with him in the first place? (link)
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Well, I have had that happen to me before and I can tell u that u need to express your emotions cause if you dont like my friend always says, you will always live and wonder "what if...?" if you didn't express what you felt.
-love-MFirefly11
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