Heyy guys!!
I'm Maura :) I love to hang out w/ my friends and go shopping!! I've been through it all so ask me a question and I'll help u out :)
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I've got this amazing friend, John. I always joke around with him and everything with him and my best friend, Deanna, over the computer, but when it comes to actually hanging out.. it's a different story. While Deanna and I constantly are together, John only seems to want to talk to us when it's either conveniant for him, or when it's not in person.
For example, John, Deanna, our friend Alex and I all went to the movies to hang out. Well, Deanna, Alex and I all had a great time. We talked, laughed and everything, but John seemed to just completly be concentrated on the movie only, and when he wasn't, he was texting with some of his other friends. He pretty much didn't talk to us all until one of his newer friends met up with us at the therter..
He has made all these new friends, and I'm fine with him having friends, but he seems to be forgetting Deanna and I. He also seems to be more arrogant, because all of these girls happen to be alot prettier, and more popular than us.
He's just seemed to change.. and I really miss the old John, who I used to be able to joke around with, not having to worry about confrontation.
And I'm not flipping out all of a sudden, either.. This has been an on-going thing, and I've talked to him about it a few times. I don't pin blame or anything, but he's still not getting that he's not being the kindest person lately..
Please tell me what I should do.. I know not to push him away or anything, but.. what do I do to get everything like it used to be?
Thank you in advance, Sam (link)
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Hey,
I think right now that your friend is propably just going threw a phase which hopefully he will get out of but you just need to try to remind him of the good times you use to have. Also to show him that your not trying to hold him back why don't you ask if some of his new friends want to come along to show him that your supportive and you want to be friends with his friends to.
Maura
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Hey,
last night my best friend called my cell phone at around 10 and told me that her mom has colon cancer. When I heard this i started crying because I know my friend and her mom are really close.
So my question is, what can I say to my friend? I mean i dont really even know how to react to this, its one of those things you never think will happen to you. Does anyone know what the chances that her mom will die are? Thank you so much
-marsbars (link)
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Hey,
I myself have dealt with my friend's parent having cancer and I know how hard it can be on a person. But all he/she really needs is to know that you are there for her no matter how she feels. So let her know!
Maura
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