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i've been friends with my best guy friend for about 5 years now. we use to be really close but lately we've drifted. the problem is; the things he does to me makes me wonder if he even is a good friend. i need an outsiders view because of course i love him, we're really close so i wouldn't be able to be like "hes not a good friend to me"
if i were to text him when i was drunk and say something like..."i love you best friend" he would never say anything back. whenever we text he's ALWAYS the one to end the conversation by not texting back to something i said. when i tell him my problems, he doesn't even try to help and console me he just says.."that sucks." he doesn't seem to like ANY guy that i talk to, even if i'm just friends with them. he'll be like.. your friends with him!!!? why!! he never calls or texts me to hangout, i'm always the one who has to text him. when we're together with a group of people and there are girls he will flirt with them and try to make me jealous, which just annoys me. it seems like he will only call me "best friend" when he tries to get something out of me, like when he really wants something. i mean just things like that, that makes me think... is he being a true good friend? is this something that typical guys do?
don't get me wrong he does to alot of good things! he accepts me for me. he's seen me with no make-up, my hair not done and scrubbing and he doesn't care. he always can tell when something is wrong. when we're hanging out he can always make me laugh and have a goodtime. seeing him makes my bad days better. he's the only guy who i can truly trust. he's the only one who i will fight with and know that i am mad at and should be mad at, yet i can NEVER stay mad at him. i've talked to him about him seeming like we're not "best friends" anymore and everytime i bring it up he doesn't seem to understand and thinks im crazy for thinking any of that. it's like he doesnt know that hes being like that towards me and that i do overanalyze everything.
am i overanalyzing? should i be worried about our friendship? (link)
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to me, i think your in love. I've been through the same things with the guy i'm with right now....like the same exact things. Tell him what you just told me. tell him how you feel and everything, and if he can't handle it...then he's not a true friend. My boyfriend and i have been together for 1 year and 3 in a half months. We've been friends for 2 years....I know how it is girl. If you need anymore help let me know. i'm here for you.
your friend, lulabell aka lulu
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Hello everyone (link)
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okay here's what i do....i find something to hold on to when i'm on the phone. I'm not a big talker on the phone myself. i like to be doing something while i talk on the phone... if you need to write some things down on a peice of paper that you can alk about that's always a good idea. Alrighty....hope i helped.
your friend, Lulabell aka lulu
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