Hellooo, i'm Lauren, a British, teenage girl who has a love for all things beauty and fashion related and I'm here to help you xxx
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Hi. Okay, so I have other friends too besides my bestie of besties. So, I have Jamie, my #1 sister, but I also have like 2 other best friends. But it's SOOOO hard for me to hang out with my other friends because Jamje always gets butt hurt and pissed off. Then she ignores me and says stuff like "maybe they should be your new best friend" or "you never hang out with me anymore" when I'm like, ALWAYS with her... it's been going on for quite a while and I just want to have fun with everyone without losing friends along the way... HELP!!! (link)
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Hellooo,
Ok, so firstly, You really need to talk to Jamie. A similar thing happened to me last year and I let it get waaayy out of hand, so find a free lunchtime or break, or arrange to meet somewhere with her asap.
Make sure you choose somewhere quite quiet and private such as at the bottom of the school field, to do the talking.
Then, you need to tell her how you feel, in the nicest way possible. Explain to her that its normal to have more than one friend and that she is still your best friend forever, no matter what. Explain to her how it makes you feel when she ignores you and reassure her that if she ever feels upset then she can always talk to you.
Try to Make the conversation as relaxed as possible and if all goes well, then it should end with a hug.
I hope this helps xxx
Lauren
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