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Well, I'm Lindsey and I'm fifteen. If I get any more questions, I'll be active again. I'd really like to help y'all out, so don't be shy, just ask! :)

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I have a friend named Rob who I've known all my life and he tells me everything. We both made friends with a new younger girl named Lena (we're in eighth grade and she's in seventh) and we have a great time together. Rob is a really nice guy, and I think that Lena is mistaking that for him liking her, and she's starting to like him. For example, whenever we are doing something, like bouncing on the trampoline, and Lena falls over, he's over there helping her up again, and she's mistaking that for him liking her. Rob has told me himself that he doesn't like Lena as more than a friend, but I don't want Lena to ask him out and break her heart. What do I do?

Don't beat around the bush about it. Just confront her about the situation and be honest. Just tell her that you've been noticing her taking things the wrong way and let her know, nicely, that Rob isn't interested in her. Then let her know that you're only trying to be a friend and help her out.

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hey linds! i saw ur site its sweet.. this aint really a big thing but i was wonderin if u could help me with my colors on aim.. ur are so * cute * so yeah my sn is yolanda6x29..

hah.
thankyou &sure.!

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well theres these people i've been running with at practice lately and they've really been starting to get on my nerves lately...and we've only been in school for 2 weeks. i dont wanna be like leave me alone! but they're getting annoying...mainly this one guy but still...so i duno how to deal with it..any advice?

Well since you're running, uhm..run AWAY. ? Hah, I don't know. No wait, yes I do. If you're up for it, then tell them that you think they're annoying in a nice way, or you could always just not run with them anymore.

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hmm..ok..so there's this girl at my school and she is supposedly my "friend"..but sometimes she gets on my nerves so much i just want to slap her..hahaha..but anyways..i don't get why i hang around her if i don't like her..but i don't want to just hurt her feelings by stop hanging out w/ her..what should i do Lindsey?!?! lol.. haha it's liz by the way..

I've had this same problem before, too. Well, the only thing I can tell you to do is just either tell her what makes her annoying in a polite manner &then maybe she'd change and be more fun to hang around. Or, you could just deal with it. Hahh.

Hope I helped. ?

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i kind of had the same problem as another girl below ; see their's these 5 girls at my school and me and 2 other girls all sit with them. the 5 of them are really popular, and we're kind of too i used to be really good friends with one of the girls (amanda) but then she started hanging out with the other 4. i've also had alot of classes with one of the girls and we're grown to be good friends. The thing is though i'm never invited over their hosues ? i know for the person below you told her to do the inviting , but i can't invite all 5 of them over; plus amanda's mom doesn't like me that much. like i also only hang out with them when i see them at our local pool(belmont), or at lunch. their not stuck up at all even though thsi may soudn like it.. i thought maybe they weren't even hanging out with my b\c i was as pretty as them (not trying to say i'm ugly or anything , but they no have better jeans then me) thanks for yur time !i kno this was a long one !!
xox - jenny , charlotte, NC

Well, maybe you could just invite them to a movie instead of over to your house.

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yes!! u did help a lot and thanks fro settin me striaght ... lol and i will do as i am told just sit back and enjoy the awsome veiw of his hot steaming huge !!! arms OMGA this one lindz well HE`S BUFF and has come to protect lol umm so i will do as im told and just pray that everything will turn out for the best cuz well i need everyone right now!!! pray that he will u know and that he u know lol ok well im goin to bed and hopefully will not have a dream like last nights .. if i didnt tell u i had a dream a/b someon dying and i woke up and it was that new Tim McGraw song that he sings and the tv was turned on so yea fun dream i guess it must have meant somthing but not sure what it is quiet yet .. lol well gonna go comment and let me see what ya ya lol its always fun when u comment
xoxox
mj

Yep.
Way to take my advice, Jordieee! Just sit back and..enjoy the view of his buff body.? Somehow, I don't remember telling you to do that, but uhm, works for me. Hahaha. Yeah, those soccer boys, let me tellll you. Hahh. Well yeah, weird dream. I'll be seeing you in a few hours!

iloveyouuuuu.

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Okay. Well me & my best friend have been talking to this guy on-line for a while now. He is 15, & in a band. He`s gothic, but really nice... & no he`s not always all depresed, & yes he does laugh, heh. Well any way, like I said he`s in a band & they might have a show down here sometime soon. Well any way, we all talk on the phone like all the time, & he seems really kool. But the only problem is that he thinks where 14 (I`m 13, shes 12.) I know it`s not that big of a differance between like 12.. 13 & 14. But still. Well my question is, when this guy does come down here, do you think me & my friend should go out & meet him, or just forget about him?? Pleassse help!!

much looove...

Although I've never been a fan of meeting people on-line, I think you should go! If he sounds nice &everything, then sure, why not? But, I would say it might be a good idea to tell him that y'all aren't really 14, I mean, I'm sure he wouldn't mind. Well, I hope I could help!

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you don't know me but i need advice.. ok well there are these girls at my school who i sit with at lunch and their's 3 of them.they're really cool and stuff and we're kinda friends, like we hang out and stuff but only when we see each other at places during the summer like our pool. Or at parties we'll hang out, but they never invite me over their houses ? i really want to get to be better friends with them, but i don't understand why they never invite me over, i've known them for like 1.5 years..is it becasue they don't like me ? please help !

I'm sure its not because they don't like you. I've had problems with this myself. &sometimes its you who has to step up and do the inviting. It might seem hard because you might have some doubt towards whether they like you or not, but its worth a try, I promise. You'd be surprised. So next time you see them, like at lunch or something invite them to hangout &if y'all end up making plans &having a good time, I'm sure all four of y'all will get together more often &become better friends!

Hope I helped!

-Lindsey

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I use to hate this girl at my school, i never said anything to her hurtful its just that she acts stuck-up but the problem is that my friend is friends with her and i cant stand being around her, I dont wanna tell my friend because i am scared she will stand up for the girl and stop talking to me.

Well, your friend should respect your feelings &opinions towards the girl you don't like. I think you should tell your friend, just so she knows and she doesn't think you're avoiding her or anything when this other girl is around. &if your friend stops talking to you, then she's not much of a friend.

Hope I was some sort-of help! :)

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