Hey! My name is stephi. I love to play sports, especially volleyball and soccer, so if you have any questions about those, feel free to ask! i live in the oh-so cold minneSNOWta. even though i love the snow...the cold gets really old. i love giving (and getting) advice! go ahead and ask me anything! I am christian, so i know a lot about my religion. I love listening to music! its one of my favorite things to do (besides volleyball). i am a really nice person, and i LOVE to laugh, so if u have anything funny, tell me!!!
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Age: 14
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Hey stephi!
It's becka, just wanted to tell you that i'm sooo happy that we are on the same team for high school. This season is going to rock! Sorry about what happened to your ankle. Better tell the Right side if you're doing slide. ha ha.
anyways, this isn't a question... just a little note because right now i'm bored.
C'ya tomorrow at practice!
-Becka
-volleyball2150 (link)
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hey becka wecka!!!
wow that was weird...anyways...
haha thanks my ankle is getting better so ill probable try to play tomorrow and well see how it goes....
im really psyched that we are on the same team!!! i cant wait untill our first match!!! there are so many teams that i want to beat!!!
well i gg
my mom has yogurt for me in the kitchen...yummmm :)
~stephi
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please read it i know its long but i REALLY NEED THE HELP. ill rate please help!
when me and my friend went to the movies i took my nano ipod an she took her video ipod. she then decided that she wanted to borow mine and so we traded becuase she liked my music in it. so we traded and it was a while when i saw her. i mean we called eachother buches of time but i was to busy to hang out. well i took her ipod to school oneday and they stole it. i was so mad. someone actually went into my bookbag and stole it. i was crying hysterically and my dad was screaming at me. they still are talking about it.my mom keeps screaming at me and reminding me. i called my friend and i told her she was a bit mad at first and then she said dont worry well fix this. so i told her i was gonna give her my sisters ipod. but my sister didnt want to give her vodeo ipod becuase 1). her pod is wayy newer then my friends and it has NO scratches and my friends had scratches and 2). my sister bought it with her own money. my parents dont have 300 bucks right now to buy a new ipod. so they told me to tell my friend to wait a while ,while i get the money. i told her and she got mad. she told me that she wanted my sisters and my sis didnt want to give hers. so she told me to give her my moms cell number becuase her mom wanted to speak with my parents. so i did and they talked and my firends mom was so eman to my mom. my mom got mad so they closed and her moom said she'll call back to speak to my dad or else this will get serious. i dont know what she meant by that. my friend doesnt talk to me and well i dont want to either because i feel like she traded our friendship for a stupid ipod. and we were so close. we had so many plans together for the summer and my mom says now that im not allowed to hang out with her and i doubt it that my ex friend wants to be friends. what really gets me mad is the fact that i wanted to give my friend her ipod 2 times! first we were at the mall and she said no keep it for longer and the second time was when i was near her house and called her but she was tlaking to her bf and sed she would call me bak but didnt! i dont know what to do! please help any adive comments? anything?. oh i cant trade in my ipod nano which is liek 130 bucks for a video ipod which is 300. thats impossible. thnaks so much!
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ok first of all i would NOT get your sister into this. this is between you and your ex-friend so i wouldnt promise anything of your sisters to her.
this is as much as her fault as it is yours, even though it isnt. she lent you her ipod taking the risk that you could of ACCIDENTALLY broken it or (in this case) had it stolen from you.
i would first sit down and talk with your parents. tell them that you had made a mistake bringing it to school and that you are really sorry for all the trouble it has caused. also that you will get a job babysitting, mcdonalds, etc to help pay for it. also that you will talk to her parents.
next i would go to your friends house. if her parents open the door tell them that you would like to speak with their daughter , that you are really sorry that this happened and that you want to work this out. if you feel brave anough i would also sit down with them and explain the whole story of swiching the ipod and how it got stolen.
if they wont listen, or wont let you come in, try calling her instead. before she makes an excuse not to talk say that you are really sorry and that you are getting money right now to get her a new ipod. tell her that you shouldnt let a ipod come inbetween your friendship and that you really value hers.
if she doesnt listen, dont get frusterated. i would keep on going with getting some money and buying her a ipod. there are also places besides the apple store that sell ipods. ebay, radio shack etc. send it to her in the mail and hopefully she will relize that you truely are sorry.
remember that this is an accident and you didnt do this on purpose.
hope that helped
~stephi
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~13/f~ im the kind of gothic rough girl and hes the kind of preppy nice guy.Im not sure how I like my friend bff or bf. Weve been really close friends for a long time then it started going to bffs. because I tell him more than my other bffs and he tells me a lot and were always there for each other. But then we flirt so much. people think or say were dating or should but were not. He knows I liked him I know he liked me but I have no idea now. I went to a paintball party. We both go paint balling a lot then at the party my team was my 5 bffs 3 of their bfs and him. we flirt so much that’s what im so confused about. He was showing off and when we separated he was looking for me and worried? hes just really to nice. Is that what it should be like. But now hes been wearin a lot of black and deppressed. Does that mean something. But then we do joke or do shoot each other on purpose. And my other bff and her bf broke up that night so I went with her. So he knew so he went to get him(the guy she broke up with). Then we went around me my bff(my ?bff or bf? As in him) and my other bff (she just broke up). he was talking to her about something ‘top secret’. later on she started truth or dare. I kept doing truths I was just to nervous. I knew it was a setup. He asked truth to me if id ever take a dare. Then my bff asked truth to me if I liked him then truth to him if he liked me we both said no. I regret it. Everyone already knew anyway but im just not sure if I like him bf or bff? And ive never kissed or been kissed. That’s what it was supposed to be…us kissing. I thought wed start taking it longer than just a ‘dare’ kiss like making out or something. I like him as a bf then bff then bf then bff I just am not sure whats wrong. Hes all I think and write about.
i really need help soon. we tell each other a lot of stuff and we both knew or thought before the party that we liked each other. my life is very messed up i hate it hes all i really had.
Do I like him as a boyfriend(bf) or best friend(bff). How do you think he likes me? What should we do? How do you kiss? How could i tell my mom?
we still havent talked were bffs. what should i do?
i wrote this Q last week and this happened last week and still nothing (link)
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it really depends on what is in your heart. if you really do like him, and you really want to go out with him, i would go for it. but i would take it slow. try to get him alone and ask him how he feels. dont demand an answer because guys hate that. be very understanding. he probably said no in the truth or dare because either you said no, or he didnt want everybody to know. it sounds like you really like him by the way you write about him, and how you said its all you ever think about. i bet he likes you too. you said he is always flirting with you, so that is a good sign. i think the reason why he dressed up in black clothes is because he wanted to get your attention, and also since you are kind of the gothic girl, he wanted to impress you. that is really nice that you trust each other, so he would make a really good bf.
for the kissing. like i said, take it slow. make sure the first time you think you might kiss him, you are alone. dont start making out or frenching on your first time. to show that you want to kiss him is looking at his lips while he is talking. dont start staring at them, but do look down at them once and awhile. then you can start leaning in towards him. most people turn their heads to the right, so watch what he is doing. if you do bang noses or teeth, just laugh it off. make sure to be gental, and dont keep your mouth open. that just invites a french kiss. trust me, it will come to you naturally.
also, this may seem a little weird, but try practicing on your hand. it really works!!!
hope that helped & good luck!!! :-D
if you have any more questions, or you need some more advice, just ask!!!
~stephi
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Hey stephi!
i don't have a question really... but If i do, I will ask you, and you can do the same.
Volleyball is soo much fun! You are a really good hitter!
We should get Ashley to do this too! hehe
add me as a favorite columnist!
love ya
~*Becka*~ (link)
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hahaha you are sucha a buz killer!!! no haha just kidding!!! i was like oh my someone wants to ask me a question!!!! haha no its fine!!! how do you add people as favorites??? we should seriously get ashley to do this. we signed you up with us for a romm...hope thats ok...
lyl
stephers
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