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Hey Le.. you probably know who this is after u read the question...
Ok, so there's this boy and well... I LOVE HIM! But he like HATES my guts because I went out with him before and did something stupid (i broke up with him) I care for him and he does know... but he won't really tell me anything on how he feels towards me. I really want to know and I really want to give up on him! But something in my heart tells me "No... don't... it will just take time for him to realize it's you he wants..."
please leanna... help me!
Love-
Confused Secret Lover (link)
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Dear Confused Secret Lover,
haha yes I know who you are! I don't think he hates you, I think that he is just stunned because you haven't really talked since you went out then all of a sudden you like him and he probably doesn't know what to do! If you want to give up on him, go ahead. But, if your heart doesn't you don't have to! Most of the time, love doesn't go our way; so we have to get used to it. When that special person comes, you will just know it!
I hope i helped!
~Leanna
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Okay.. so theres this boy. And hes really cute! But we dont know eachother very well in real life, but on the internet. Everytime i keep telling myself im gunna say hey to him! i gunna say it! But everytime im about to do it..I chicken out!! What do i do to find the courage to talk to him?
Signed,
Shy and Doubtful (link)
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Dear Shy and Doubtful,
First, you need to find out why you are chickening out. If it is because he might not think you are hott, or if you aren't what he expects, or something different. Now about talking to him, if you say that you will say hey then make a commitment to yourself not to chicken out and plan in advance when you will say hey, so it won't just pop on you. If I didn't answer it right then you can just e-mail me if you want to or if u have anymore questions :) kk or you can post them here again.
Leluvsyew123@yahoo.com
thanks!
i hope i helped!
~Le
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Okay.. these 2 guys that are my really close friends are fighting cuz someone told one of them i said that the other one was starting crap about him. So now, they are both pissed and wont even talk to me.. i told them i was sorry and that i didnt do anything that was meant to hurt them but what else should i do to get them to trust me again?
Signed,
Caught-In-The-Middle (link)
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this is weird because the same thing happened to me last year some girl told one of my best friends that i was talking crap about her and then they started just telling random people i called them a bitch or something well i think that you did all that you had to do you said sorry and thats all you can do and if they were really your friends they would accept your apology but just give it some time and it will blow over if you were really one of their close friends.. hope i helped!!
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Ok... all my bffs (i have three or four) all r EXTREMELLY pretty and all have bfs... but when it comes to me I'm not pretty and stuck being single... and they are always talking with their boys and i feel left out cuz i'm stuck there talking to who ever listens... what should I do? *confused and single* (link)
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I bet you are pretty because in the bible it says that God thinks we are ALL beautiful ok I like being single better than going out with people because its just more fun to me if your friends are like leaving you out then just confront them // tell them// i wish u best of luck and i hope i helped !
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It feels like all my friends are changing and I'm staying the same. Why does life change like this? _Changeless_ (link)
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Dear Changless,
Everybodys changing i bet you friends feel the same way because we grow so slowly we just don't notic cause we are well.. us! also we are getting older we are maturing into adults :-/ hahaha it might not seem like we are but inside we all are.
hope i helped
-le
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I'm scared that my friends might be using me. Because once, me and one of my best friends got into this huge fight... then all of a sudden, it was over. How can I tell if it's a true friendship or not? _Used_ (link)
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Dear Used,
well i'm not God and i don't know if she is using you. But when I was younger I was used all the time and I just could tell. You could pray and ask God if she is using you. Also you could answer these questions
does she act like she wants to be around you?
does she avoid you when shes around her other friends if those are yeses she is probably using you well hope i've helped!
~Le~
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