hey im katie 16/ female. I find it interesting to listen to all kinds of ppl's problems, i try my best to help.
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I have been friends with my best friend since 4th grade. We are both going into 11th grade currently. Recently, she has found this boy that she really likes and he likes her, but it seems that she doesn't care if I'm there to hang out with them while his friend is there also and makes me feel like a 3rd wheel. She ignores me and doesn't seem to give a damn anymore. The thing is that she's never like that even when she had her other boyfriend beforehand. I am the one who wants a boyfriend and she tells me oh boys are stupid and there's no one around that's good enough. When I was at her house, she seemed to act fake around him and now I have heard that she's been holding hands with him and staring at him too much.Ii don't know but she's not exactly caring if I found a guy yet if she does, it's like oh my god. I don't want to seem jealous but it's like I'm not even her best friend. The sad thing is, they just met in person 3 days ago! I know she needs to have her space with him...but she's acting out of character. (link)
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wow, you have a pretty selfish friend right now. IF she expects you to be happy with her new b/fs, then you should expect the same in return. FRiendship is a give and get relationship, if you give too much and she dosent give back, than its not equal.. and when ur friend isnt the same person in front of u and other people, and changes her identity in fake ways than she dosent know herself, actually right now you know her better than she does. GET her to REMEMBER herself and tell her not to be insecure, beacausec i think she is insecure with herself in front of her boyfriend, fearing that he wont like her real idenity. tell her she dosent need to put on the dumb, cute, girly acts in front of him. otherwise she isnt honest with herslf, or with you or the new b/f.
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heya, i have a best friend called Laura. Shes great fun to be around and we are into the same stuff and its great coz we treat each other like equals. I do stuff with her that i dont do with my other friends like go straight up to lads and talk to them or go to nightclubs for under 18s and recently she treated me to a trip to alton towers.
Ive always been slightly jealouos of her because she is really pretty and she lives in a big house (in a different village) with a gorgeous dog and her family is quite rich and they spoil her a bit thought she doesnt act spoilt but now its all getting too much..
1.Recently shes been acting snobby and too good for my other friends and ive realised that shes quite 2faced too.
2.Whenever i go to her house i always come back wishing i was her or completely stressing out because of what she has that i dont.
3.She can afford to be what i want to be if you know what i mean its like shes living my life but better
4.She takes credit for my ideas and style
5. I introduced her to my friends at the skatepark and shes taken them all away from me
6.She is so pretty but its the products she can afford to buy that makes her pretty
7. I pointed out a bag i really wanted and she liked it too and was going to buy it because she had the money on her but i made it clear that it was mine when i got the money . i was really pleased because i had something against her but shes gone back and her mum gave her the money for the same bag in a different colour which made me want to kill her becuase my anger had built up so much over the year and it was like that was the final straw
8. Shes decorating her room the same style as mine but hers will be better because she can afford more and she'll take the credit for it
9.She has a ahem 'perfect' boyfriend that she keeps rubbing in my face anbut she dont realise shes doing it.
10. Shes moving down my street soon.........this REALLY PISSES ME OFF BECAUSE ITS A MASSIVE HOUSE AND I LIVE IN A CUTE LIL BUNGALOW BUT HERS WILL BE REALLY POSH INSIDE AND SHES HAVING THE WHOLE TOP FLOOR TO HERSELF AND SHES GONNA TAKE OVER MY NEIGHBOURHOOD. and she says shes gonna have loadsa partys but i wanted to be the one hu throws the partys in my town but itll be her now and ill have to live with it and be the 'other one' if you know what i mean. i could go on..
11.aaarrgghh i wanna die..or her to die...either way wud suit me... (link)
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wow, you should be happy that you have all the things she dosent have, like your sencerity, your generousity, ur kindness and honesty. she is just not in tune with what really is important in life, one word LOVE. she might not get enough, thats why shes been snobby to you , she is in DESPERETE NEED for love and ATTENTION. get her to avoid all the materialist thingd=s and superficial things in life like her new big house. As long as she can appriciate it, and be generous to you, no snottinesss, then she will be good agian.
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i havent seen my friend all summer so we kinda drifted apart since school ended. i was talking to her online but she was kinda ignoring me and didn't say much. when i asked her what shes been doing lately she just says "nothing" and i was expecting an actual full answer from her. i've been asking her to hang out but she makes up a stupid excuse every day why she can't. and get this, ill ask her to hang out she will say she cant then 2 seconds later her away message is "going to ___'s house" i can't stand it. and it happens all the time too. shes not a busy person and she couldnt find 1 day this whole summer to hang out with me. if i call her she says she has to go within a minute and just hangs up. i've had several conversations with her asking her what the problem is and she treats me like a 2 year old and says i need to get over it.school is starting soon and we are on oposite sides of the school and we wont see eachother will keep us farther apart from eachother. i want my best friend back. the one that likes to talk and be around me. what can i do to get her back? (link)
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warn her you won't be waiting to long for her reply or friendship. KEEP trying to pry her open and ask what wrong with the friendship, ask the problem, if she still won't aknowlege you im afraid you will drift apart and move on, it is not worth worring about all summer long. HEr loss not yours.
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