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My name is Sasha Davis and I hope to someday be a phycologist. I am here because I want to learn about how I can best help other people. Come to me with your problems and I promise I will give you the best advice possible. Thank you :)
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My friendship with a guy (best guy friend...or was...) is over...and i dont know what to do...i dont know what to think...i dont know how to feel...
im in so much pain...and right now i feel numbed to it...and that is really scary because i know its gonna hit me really hard later than...its happened before...but the thing that really gets me is that i dont think he notices anything is wrong...like he has no idea that our friendship is gone down the toliet or he does and he just doesnt want to do anything about it...he just doesnt care...
i dont know...any advice on this would be greatly appreciated!
Well, what you should probably do is keep talking to him. I know it feels weird talking to him, and you would rather he talked to you first. You probably want HIM to show an interst in being your friend. The reality is, his isn't interested and doesn't care. You therefore have two options: try to make him your friend, or move on. Whatever you decide, don't sit around moping.
Let me know how it works out =)
there's this guy that i like & hes just a nice person. the thing is, im friends with his friends & so we talk in small groups during class a lot. i talk to them, they talk to me, etc etc. hes been in almost every one of my classes & sits near me in all. we never actually talked. i mean yeah we exchanged words about a class assignment or something, but that's about it. in my one class, a group of people would talk & they would all talk to me yet he wouldn't. im completely ignored by him. i've tried talking about this class were taking & it just didn't work out. i mean, if im talking he'll look at me but will never respond, or join in on the convo, etc. maybe im not social to the extreme, but i do talk to his friends & at least try to make conversation. does he just not like me?? or is it something else??
Girls often think they are sending out huge messages when in actual fact they are being subtle. You should ask him to hang out with you and your friends sometime after school. You know, just to hang out and get to know him better. Food luck and let me know how things work out :)
at my school we have teams -- 7-1, 7-2, and 7-3. i used to be on 7-1, but then i got switched to 7-2 because i was having problems in math. 7-2 is also the team one of my best friends are on. before now, we never fought, got mad at each other, or anything like that. i've made best friends with alot of her close friends because i have most of my classes with them. ever since that...she's been yelling at me for the most stupidest things. on her AIM profile, she used to always have something about me on there and she took me out. i don't really care about "profiles", but i just thought it was weird of her cause she normally freaks out if i'm not on hers. if i'm talking to one of them and we're saying something about one of our inside jokes, she'll just come out of no where and be like, "A-HA-HA-HA-HA!" in a fake laughing voice and then be like, "um, that's not even funny." or something. sjakdgasjda, it's getting on my nerves. is she just jealous or WHAT is her problem?
She may feel that you have taken over the limelight, and you probably have. Try to include her more. She obviously feels insecure. Good luck and let me know how it turns out :)
About 3 months ago me and my ex broke up. We had only gone out a little over a month and he broke up with me cause of some other girl he liked. But we managed to still be good friends and we hang out and stuff, but with groupd of people not alone. Well the other day he got a new girlfriend, and its been making me really sad. Cause ya see i guess im still not fully over it all. I am 16 and he was my first boyfriend so it was like big to me (not to sound obsessed or whatever) but we had a good relationship everyone said so. I wasnt in love with him cause we didnt go out long enough but i guess just wished it lasted. So how can i help myself get over him. Thanks.
There are three main things that can help you get over him.
#1 Come to appreciate the fact that at least you found out. Many guys cheat on their girlfriends and they never know that the guy they are with doesn't feel the same way about them. Now you are able to look at things in a realistic mannar, which is better than a fictional romance.
#2 Give yourself time. As long as you try to move on, your life will continue to improve.
#3 Distract yourself by involving yourself in extracarricular activities. You need to focus on something becides other people.
Good luck, and you can always talk to me if when you start feeling blue :)