kait_1991's advice column | kait_1991's Advice About Friendship

askkait_1991

advice column ask question view feedback favorite columnist advicenators

Q: I'm so confused!

All my friends are splitting up & talking behind eachothers backs!! & like the second one of them will go away, they'll be like.. "ehmagawd, i hate her." or something like that. I'm afraid their doing this to me too. I don't know who to trust anymore. & their all doing it too! Their all sooo fake. & I can't be friends with anyone else, I go to a very small school. & I'm not hanging out with losers or the sluts. SO. what do i do!?

aww i know how ye feel nd it sucks
i was in eh exact ssame place nd kinda still am
it was reli hard cos lyk a had one person telling me one thing another saying sumfin bout eh first person nd its a pain n eh bckside

but if ye think on it all people tok behind peoples bcks nd dats eh way of lyf sorry
dis isnt prob helping

basically ye jst need to say to them nd this is what i did

say to them btw instead of tokin bout each other behinf each others bcks say it too there face... it may sound harsh but it works seriously they all get there feelings out about each other nd usually it sorts itself

Q: ok me and my friends are planning a little co-ed camping trip near these waterfalls and im just asking what are some things i should bring..like necessities and entertainment things? i was already thinking a boombox that runs on batteries and having an all night campfire of course.
any ideas on games to play..things to do?
5's for effort thanks
16/f

ok i no this may sound stupid but ive been camping thousands of times and bringing games isnt as much fun as going climbing ive never been near watefalls but for a laugh u should try climbing. honestly give it a shot.

wish i could come

Q: ok, well my friend got raped by her dad and is abused. I dont know if he does it alot, or if he did it just once, but still, my friend is in deep shit if she dosent tell anyone. Fortunatly she told me cause we're really close, but she didnt tell the social worker *she was adopted* cause she said she dosent want her world to turn upside down and change. She told me to keep it as a secret and when she told me i was half asleep *i'm awake now* so i promised i wouldnt tell anyone that could arrest him or anything. Should i tell my parents and make her suffer but have her world the way it is and how she wants it to be? or should i break my promise to my friend and tell my parents? Please help, it's a big problem! i'll rate high!

ok what i would do is tell your mum but tell her that you want help but that you promised your friend hat you wouldt say anything. dont let her go through with the pain of having her rape her again. just now i wouldnt tell like he police because children tend to over exagurate things mabey its not as bad a s it seems but for just now talk to YOUR mum she'll help you and her throug this

Q: Hey me and my best friend have been friends for about 4 years nearly 5. But now its all changed and i miss her so much i just want things to go back to normal but my other friend is very jelious if we do anything together help!!

will rate hight!!

ok, i have the same problem but what i'm going to do is send a letter to my old friend saying we need to catch up some time and that im sorry i havent called. as for my other friend (whoz jealous) im going to tell her thats shes not my only friend and that she cant have me all to herself cause thats kinda weird lol.

hope i helped
kristel