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Im the bomb like tic tic!
But imma lil fucked up with my sex life lol
Im what they call easy HELP!!!!
Gender: Female
Location: Portland Oregon Baby
Occupation: skool!
Age: 14
Member Since: June 23, 2009
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I apologize in advance if I sound really naïve for asking this

Have any of you ever just made out with a friend but then simply continued your friendship afterwards? Can you explain to me how such a thing could happen? Like, I can kind of get how it would start if the mood and setting were right, but then what about after you were done? Wouldn't there be a sense of awkwardness between you two, or an unanswered question of a possible relationship? It just seems like it would be really awkward after that.

You see, the whole idea of just making out with a friend and then going on with the friendship completely baffles me. I've always thought that making out was something special that should only happen between people in a relationship...I mean, I understand the idea of a hookup, but isn't that usually not between people who are considerably good friends?

The reason that I ask is that there is one particular guy friend that I have in mind that I know made out with one of my friends a month or two ago and they didn't even know each other that well [not as close as me and him]. That's what kind of got me thinking. We might be hanging out soon and I don't actually like him like a crush but there's some interest and I could do with a nice snog because I kind of miss it. I just don't want it to be weird between us afterwards because he's a really fun guy and I don't want us to not be friends after it because I feel weird. It's not that I'm uncomfortable with the idea of making out with him, I'm just uncomfortable with what might happen later. Any advice?

P.S. Sorry for the length (link)
I once made out with my best freind. and I thought that it would change everything. But instead our freindship re,ained the same it was like it never happened except for the times we would joke around about how funny it was. I guess it just all depends on your guys relationship


Hey, i have this friend and she is not liked very much by other kids @ our skool! But she dosent know this. And everyone is always asking me why i am her friend. sometimes i dont stand up for her behind her back when people ask me that because, they think i am cool when i say i dont really like her when she is like my best friend! What do i do?? i like her alot BUT no one else does? ?

What do i do?? LOST AND CONFUSED?

sincerely: MMR (link)
ughh Imma say this strait up! If you like this chick and want to be her freind and if she's a good freind to you then you should do the same. stand up for her everytime some one asks you why you like her. If that means they dont think your cool then thats there problem because who you are should not be changed by the freinds you have. Its your choice who you like no one else's!




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