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Recently, I've been acting so annoying. It's starting to irritate all my friends and my boyfriend and I aren't getting along because of it. I just moan, whine, repeat myself and act stupid all the time. I can't help it, I never used to be like that. How do I stop? (link)
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As for the moaning and whining, try to to help other people out. See what situations other people are in and a lot of times you start to see how much better your life is compared to others. As for everything else, you have to think about stuff before you say it and really just try to think of why you could be acting that way. If you can figure it out, you can try to fix the problem. Other than that you just have to stop acting this way. Plain and simple. Okay well good luck and God Bless xoxoxoxo*Jesuschick
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I found out yesterday that a good friend of mine was killed at a party. Someone had slipped ecstasy in her drink and then she was brutally raped while she was passed out. I feel like this is all my fault. The reason being is because I always went to parties with her and I would always tell her "Beck, don't drink at parties". She'd always yell at me and tell me that I acted like her mother. But I knew I was right, I don't trust the drinks that people hand out at parties. The guy that raped her was my ex-boyfriend. I still feel like this was all my fault because, had I been there, he wouldn't have done anything to her because he's afraid of me. I'm sure by now you're all probably thinking "This is a load of bull" but believe it. This actually happens to people. She was my best friend. I knew I should have gone with her to that party. I'm completely miserable right now. She was my best friend. I always figured that nothing like that could ever hit so close to home. I'd always see stories like this on the news and I'd think to myself "How could they be so stupid?" Or, "That would never happen where I live." But it has. I don't know how to handle this. My ex boyfriend was arrested and my friends family is waiting to go to court but in the time being, I don't know how to handle myself. I don't even have the courage to go to her funeral tomorrow. I need help getting through this. Please help me... Thank you for those who take this seriously. I would really also like a non-sarcastic answer because this is a touchy subject for me. Thank you.
I apologize for the length. (link)
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I am so sorry about your friend!! My best friend died a couple years back and I know how badly it hurts. I also blamed myslef, and the reality is that placing the blame on yourself is easier than admitting that this was out of your hands. But that is exactly what it was. Out of your hands. You can't blame yourself for something tragic that happened. It was random, unexpected, and totally horrible but NOT your fault. You warned her before. You were a good friend to her by just telling her that. Please get into grief counsleing, it was the only thing that worked for me. Not going to the funeral might be something you regret later. She would want you there, and no it isn't fun, but you should go. I didn't go to my friend's funeral and I really regret it. I'll be praying for you!! Good luck, God Bless, and this wasn't your fault!! xoxoxoxoxo*Jesuschick
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My best friend has OCD... and she reminds me of it like 24/7. Whenever she leaves the house she asks like over and over if she left sumthin on and such. I keep reminding her that OCD is just that she is detailed and stuff like that (my parents are both doctors and explained it). It's driving me NUTS! help! what do I do?
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Wow, that's a tough situation! Well, I'm sorry about your friend, I know OCD is hard to deal with for the person who has it, and the people around them. Basically, it isn't her fault, and it seems like you understand that and everything. So I guess you just have to be patient with her and support her because this is a tough time for her and she really needs a good friend when so many people are probably annoyed with her and walk away. Just let her know you're there for her, but if you start to feel like you're going to explode or something because you're annoyed or whatever, just take a break from her for a day or something. I can totally understand where you're coming from. Just remember she needs you!! Hope I helped, good luck, and God bless!! xoxo *Jesuschick
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I'm 16/f, and I have 3 friends who always do stuff withought me. I feel like i'm never included in anything they do. And I always feel like they're talking about me at theyre little get togethers. I'm always sitting at home while they're out having fun and they don't even bother to call me. I also think they're parents hate me as well, which sucks even more. My question is, what should I do when they DO call me and what should I tell them? (link)
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Hey I know exactly how you feel! The past few months have been like the exact same situation as yours for me. Lately I've been trying to invite all of them places in advance so they can't make other plans first together... and we all can hang out. It's been working for me, and it seems like they weren't doing that (all getting together without me) on purpose really anymore it was just kinda happening by coincidence. Ummm if that doesn't work then they might be upset with you about something, so you need to come directly out and ask them nicely and respectfully what is going on. If they don't really answer and the behavior continues, I say, this sucks, but you have to get new friends because it looks like these guys aren't that great of friends. As for their parents, oh well. Just try to be nice to them and ask them how their day is going if you happen to see them or whatever. You can't do anything more than be respectful, nice, and yourself right? Good luck hope it works! xo
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2 of my friends are starten 2 act like whores it dont exactly turn me on and they think it does becouse they are always wherein whorey clothes and acten like they are prosttutes around me and my friends how do i tell them that the whorely style doesnt turn me and my friends on (link)
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Tell them that you respect them way too much to see them treating their bodies this way. Ask them kindly to please stop, because it isn't enticing to you and the only guys who will like that style are not worth their time. Tell them to dress more appropriately and eventually they will find a guy who is worthy of their greatness!! Good luck =)
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