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Dear Rache and Jen,
So I have this friend. Yeah she is one of my best friends and i love her to death, but she has this problem of ditching us [ her girl friends ] for the guys she likes. I mean it's ok to hang out with your b/f, but it would be nice if you called us once in awhile because really.. who is gonne be there forever..us..not some stupid guy. Any advice on how to fix this problem.. HELP!
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well i think yoo should confront yer friend and tell her that yoo and yer other friends don't appreciate how she ditches yoo guys for her boyfriends. and if she gets mad at yoo because of it, then i guess shes not a loyal friend! i hope i helped! xoxo *rache
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ive been really depressed latley all it feels like im not needed anywhere and i feel like im not being a good friend. yah i still hang out with my friends and everything but all i ever do latley is screw up with my best friend were always in fights and it just seems like were not having a good relationship im always the one hurting her. i just feel like everybody would be ok with out me i dont know what to do (link)
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*Don't let things like that get you down! Turst me, you are needed and many people care for you. I think that you should plan out a girls night with your best friend to keep her boyfriend out of her mind for at least a little while. Maybe if she has a lot of fun without the guys, then she will want to hangout with just you more often! Also, you can always talk to her and tell her how you feel, and if she doesn't listen, she has a problem, and you need to help her realize that friends should always come before b/fs! hope we helped ya!
~rache x3jen
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One of my best friend's brother died in a car crash because of street racing. Tomorrow I am going to his funeral with our friends and to be there for my friend. I really dont know what to wear and what I'm supposed to do there. Do I bring a gift. I feel really bad. He was onlt 17 years old. Please help. (link)
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*This is one of those things that you have to decide on your own sometimes. I have a friend who's father died recently-and trust me, your friend needs you! One thing you need to make sure of is to give your friend some space, let he/she come up to you, overcrowding may cause them to think about it more or cry more. I don't think you should bring a gift, maybe send a card and flowers, but being there for your friend should be enough. Remember, let them come to you.
x3Jen
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I really need advice rite now. I have been going out with This guy for about 8 months (on and off) and I really love him. But all that I end up getting out pf this relationship is MORE drama and Hurt. I really like him but sometimes it seems like it wasnt meant to be. Ever since I met him and His buddies ITs all been He** and drama and HatE. I haven't cried sooo much in the last 5 years than I have these several months with him. He already cheated on me twice...and there is also this girl that likes him and He has Liked her Forever and I'm scared that he will go out wit her....she is such a bit** too...is it because I'm jelous of her...of what she can have or do?? i really dont know..MY LIFE IS jUST ALL Drama and I want it all to go away. please help me..
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im sorry to say but this guy probly isn't for yoo. i have a friend that WILL NOT get over this one guy... and shes so pretty and a lot of guys like her, but she always falls for this one guy. theres plenty of fish in the sea! but this guy is just not for yoo!
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Recently I started likeing my best guy friend, (we've only been really good friends for about 8 months) And before we became good friends, we went out for a lil over a month. Now I like him, and he knows and he says he does too. Im really comfortable around him, but Im scared it will ruin our friendship.Because I think I will chicken out, because Im so use to being his friend, I dont know how to be his girlfriend..What do I do ? (link)
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i have a lot of "guy friends" that sometimes i like more than a friend. and it kinda depends on how yoo act around him... are yoo usually flirty? or are yoo like 'one of the guys' around him? im sure yoo guys will be a great couple cuz yoo no so much about eachother.. but if yoo ever think that your friendship is being ruined, then i think yoo should let it go and tell him yoo guys were better off friends!
~rache
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