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Member Since: June 21, 2006 Answers: 13 Last Update: July 29, 2006 Visitors: 2565
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Okay, my best friend was dating my cousin for awhile, but then they broke up, Two weeks ago, they got back togeather, and my cousin came up for a visit. They hung out and everything was okay. Now my best friend (which by the way, there both 13), just broke up with him, cause she's saying "she didn't know how wild he was" because she just found out that he made out with his old girlfriend on her bed! But he wasn't even dating my friend at the time, so it's no big deal. So now she's being all gay, and i dont understand how to deal with this situation. Should i be mad at her, for hurting my cousin, or should i just let it slide? I love my cousin alot, he's like one of my best friends, but she's one of my best friends too! HELP (link)
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this is my personal opinion, number one your bestfriend has no reason to be angry with him. if he made out with his ex and wasn't dating your friend she has nothing to worry about. number two don't be mad at your friend either. i think that you should tell her that she doesn't have to get mad at him and shouldn't have broken up with him (in a calm and soft tone) because of that. also, don't let it slide, because again she shouldn't have been mad for something small like that.
hope i was helpful!
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well i got this girl who did tell me anything and would let me help her out with her problems but now she is alway trying not tell anyone and it really bugs me cause she alway down and depressed and i want to help so bad how do i get her to talk to me and relex and be happy... i think she's mad cause she thinks her b/f is cheating on her help please (link)
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if she's always down or depressed and doesn't want to talk about her problems, just tell her "Hey, i'm not going to bug you, but if you want to talk to someone i'm all open ears." and if she still doesn't want to say anything, then just try to encourage her or help bring her self-esteen up.
i hope i was helpful!
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