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Q: I have this friend and she is constantly calling me and wanting to have sleep overs. She is also really annoying a rude to me. I feel like i cant breath!

How can i tell her i need a break from her

Hey! I am like that sometimes and can find out when they(my friends) don't want be with me sometimes. OK! So, make up an exuse like"Hey! I am not allowed to have people over my house" or just like be with her and if she starts saying anything annoying just change the subject to something else or walk to another friend!
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Q: Okay! I am a really nice person who likes to hug people and stuff.So there are these kids with disabilities who attend our school and I love to death because they're nice.I always hug them and stuff.well, i didn't expect for them to take it as a lead on for something more.Well, this boy named (let's say)Louie like me.I don't like him and it isn't because of his disability-I am not attracted to him at all!There are lots of boys I am not attracted too.Plus I don't want a relationship, I need to focus on school.However I don't want him to think I am denying him because of his disability.So what can I say to him that I don't like him in that way without making it seem like it's the disability?I need help!

Hey! I hug people alot also and yeah. So this "louise" likes you kinf of, right? So you dont want him to take it the wrong way. If I were you I will say somethin' like this: " Hey! When I hugged you before, It didn't mean like 'i like or anything' but I like you as a great friend so I hug my friends" you got it? So, you do that if it doesnt work, you ask me again for another. Bye Bye!
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Q: my 2 best friends have been
leaving me out. they dont do
it a lot and they aren't doing
it to be mean, but it still hurts.
they are making this movie for
school and i'm in their class and
they didn't ask me. i asked if
i could be in but they already
filmed it. all 3 of us hang out
alot but if i cant do anything that
day and the 2 of them hang out,
i miss so many inside jokes and then
they put it in their aim profiles and
i feel left out. they feel left out
sometimes too, i guess thats what
happens when 3 people are bffs but
i dont wanna feel left out and i wanna
know all the secrets or inside jokes.

Hey! I have a friend that feels the same way and on Halloween, they were thing one and thing two and she wanted to be with them also.
OK sorry. I wanted to just tell you... ok now to you. You & your friends are a threesome. Follow these questions to know if they want you really that much and score at the bottom:
1. Does your friends allow you in any group they do anywhere?
2. Do your friends hook up on weekends and leave you out?
3. (LAST ONE) do you get mad at them for leaving you or do they get mad at YOU?

(if the answers are all yes then you have to choose better friends then them)
(if you have 2/3 yes then you hang out with them till they do something to you again like leaving you behind to see a movie)
(if you have 1/3 yes then be friends with them BUT still try and make friends if they leave you hanging or make them jelly{jelous} by getting a friend that is always with you)
hope you follow it!
~*jcjenniz987*~

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