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I take German in school (I'm in 10th grade and started learning it in 7th) and I'm in the German exchange this year. I'm having an exchange student stay with me for 12 days in about 2 weeks. The nearness is scaring me! I think I'll be really shy and awkward with her. ?? And if I have a lot of homework or something what is she supposed to do? I just am starting to feel weird about it.
And I leave in late June to early July to go stay with her in Germany for 12 days then go with my classmates to tour the country for 8. I'm really scared mostly because of being away from my boyfriend. I know I can't predict the future but I will say I HOPE we will still be together then. I just worry about anything happening while I am gone.
I'm not too sure what I'm asking... sorry I just want some kind of input. Thanks. (link)
Btw, we have been emailing back and forth since May.


Im 13/F. I live in a really small town which is basically a retirement community. The people that live here are all elderly. A week or so ago I found some kids that actually live here. They are honestly the only kids older than 9 that live here. There is a problem though. They are not exactly good role models at all. 1 is my age, another is 12 and 1 is 14 and the other is 15. A pretty close age range really. The main problem is I know for a fact they do drugs and stuff. Before it never really bothered me until last night when one of my school friends (im actually really girly/preppy) asked me if I ever did drugs. I replied no and the friend told me how he was worried that if I keep hanging out with them they might pressure me into starting. I dont want to and I know they kinda want me to start but whenever they bring out the stuff I have to go cause I have a curfew. I also know they are not virgins and they umm have active sex lives. The 15 year-old may be pregnent. Im kind of scared now and Im starting to debate wether or not I should go near them. They are the ONLY kids in this whole town but I dont want to be presurred into anything. Any Advice?? (link)
If you are just hanging out with them while they are not doing drugs or anything I wouldn't get too worried. If they ever try to pressure you into doing anything, just stop hanging out with them. Definitely don't hang out with them if they are doing drugs around you and stuff though, because you never know how that could end up and you could get in a lot of trouble.


okay, so i went snowboarding this weekend, and 2 of my guy friends came. (they're best friends) and 1 of them i like, and the other one likes me. neither of them know i like the 1st one. Anyways, the second guy told me that the 1st guy is going out with this girl, who basically has a new boyfriend every week. however, guy 1 and i are really good friends and he hasn't mentioned it, even when we came really close to the subject. i don't want to say anything, because i want him to tell me on his terms. but i don't know why he hasn't told me! we talk about everything.. its so weird. what should i make of this, do you think? (link)
It could be that he is even embarassed to be going out with this girl, because by what you said she seems to go through boyfriends pretty quickly. Not to insult him, but it's possible he thought she would be easy to go out with and maybe would hope to make you jealous even? Talk to him about it =]




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