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i have had feelings for this guy and my bestfriend has known this for years
i've heard he likes me too but sometimes he's so sweet and sometimes he's an ass to my face and teases me........the only reason i keep having feelings for him is bc deep down i can tell he likes me.
my bestfriend just had her heart broken from another guy and i helped her through everything........i was always with her encouraging her and bringing her flowers and crying with her.
a week later we were at a part.....i walk into a room and she is hooking up with the guy i like!!!
i can't begin to explain how bad that felt. i mean he's the reason i come to that party. he's the person i dress up to impress. i've liked him foreverrrrr! and my bestfriend???
so the next day i talk to her and tell her that she really hurt me. and she says she was drunk and she didn't know what she was doing. i tell her whatever and just move on.
but then the next week. i was at a party and i can't find her again! so i go upstairs and she's hooking up with him again!!!!!
by now i am sooooooooooooooooooooooo mad and sad and frustrated i just leave. i figure she's doing this bc she had her heart broken and she's trying to do it to me so i can feel it too.
the next day i talk to her and tell her she's being so low and i don't know what's going through her mind!!! she says she has feelings for him too. she's never told me that. and there's no reason i should be mad bc he's not my "property" and that when he starts making out with her......should she stop and tell him i can't bc my best friend like you too!
and then she also says the reason he's an ass to you sometimes is bc he just doesn't like you! you need to come to realize he does not like you!
and now i think she's going to start dating him.
she's been my bestfriend for 9 years. and i do everything with her.i don't want this to ruin our friendship. but i think it is already.
i feel like i've lost the guy i've always wanted and my bestfriend at the same time and i have no one to talk about it with.
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i think that she was going through a tough time with her heartbreak and was desperate to find a guy that would help her het over him. She probably doesnt like him, she is just making herself think that to get over the other guy. If she would do that to you, she is not a good friend. Real friends dont do that even if they are desperate.
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