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Age: 14
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Member Since: July 20, 2004
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Hey im a 13 year old girl and i was in a chat room one day and met a guy who lives in california, but hes 17. Me and him have gotten closer and closer like the best of friends in 7 months and he tells me age doesnt matter and that one day we will meet up when i get out of high school. I wanna belive it all and i really like him. But recently in my area a guy who was pretending to be a girl but he really was a 34 year old man!! * hotlife garud babe* or w/e n he was talking to some guys blah blah blah the guys went to go meet up with him n he tried to molest them yea its weird and it scares me that if one day i do wanna end up meeting this guy that he might try to rape me or something. He just meens so much to me n i wanna meet him in person one day but im scared something bad will happen. plz help me i cant go to my friends ive tried to they just dont get it! (link)
well, just to make sure hes not some 34 year old rapist call him. you guys could talk on the phone first. then if he sounds alrite, you can meet him if you want. just make sure u take your friends with you, and u meet in a safe crowded place. i hope that helps.


Hey i dont have a question or anything but i just wanted to say from what i read it seems like u give awesome advice :) Ill be sure to come to you when i need advice (link)
lol. thanks so much. i try. =D


i went out with this guy 2 times a few months ago.i loved him so much and he told me he was never gunna talk to me again.little by little he started talking to me.then one night he called.after that night he kept on calling at like 12 at night.one day i went to his sisters house and i saw him there and things were so great.it was like we were going out again.but the thing is he has a gf.he said for my birthday we were gunna "mess around" but i dont want to do that unless were going out.since he has a gf,i dont know what to tell him...can you help me? (link)
gosh this guy sounds like a ass. but anyways, if you really dont wanna mess around till you guys go out, just tell him that. and if he wants to go out with you, be careful, cuz if he was willling to cheat with his gf with you, chanses are he mite do it again. if he stopped talking to you then started again, thats not a good sign. he may not be right for you because it seems like hes using you. but if hes gonna stay with his gf, then dont push it. you may have to except you guys may only be friends. cuz this is sort of like 'friends with benifits' kind of thing. its not right but i hope you make the right decision, but try to understand whats right in front of you. and be cautious.


my best friend always gets mad at me when i hang out with someone else thats not her friend what should i do? (link)
It seems like your friend is feeling a little neglected. she may be a little jealous, and the best thing to do is talk to her. Tell her you love her but you have a right to hang out with people, even if shes not friends with them. If shes a good friend, shell understand. you can also get her to meet your other friends, that way you`ll both be happy and shell make a new friend.




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