Q: My two best friends and I are in a love triangle. They dated over a year ago for two months and then broke up. But the girl (Jane) didn't want to let go so she agreed to be a friend with benefits, hoping he would take her back eventually. Time goes by and the guy (Bob) dates a couple other girls, but Jane does not. She remains obsessed with Bob. One day, Bob tells me he likes me and asks me to prom, and Jane gets really jealous of me. She is worried I will date Bob. I talk to Bob about the situation and Bob says that he and Jane decided to stop hooking up awhile back because he realized that's what made her so clingy. Anyways, Jane has been antagonizing me the whole time that if I date Bob it makes me an awful friend and she's gonna be done with me. At this point I wouldn't mind it because she is the only thing making things difficult. So should I just let the friendship die? Or should I give up Bob because of her? Giving up Bob for Jane's sake isn't fair because he and I both should be able to do what we want. It's oh so complicated and I need help dearly!

Q: Ok, so my friend, let's call her...Gabie and I are really close. We were new students at an exclusive private middle school this year and we have grown closer. The problem is that, we are both very cool and classy. [not trying 2 brag]. And like, we never cling on to each other and call each other best friends and stuff, but we are TTIIGGHHTT! Well, today, i asked her if she thought of us as best friends...and she said, "Well, me you and sabrina have been fighting A LOT lately...i`m not sure lately...." And that pissed me off. I mean, i get mad when Sabrina {my other tight friend} and her don`t wait for me to get my stuff from my locker, and yeah we have been fighting. However, there is an AWSOME camp that is coming up [in, like, 2 weeks] and me & Gabie r FOR SURE going-but sabrina doesn`t know if she can afford it. So, what do you guys think i can do for her and me to be better friends? I NEED ADVICE! Thanks in advance!

Q: my best friend (he's a dude and i'm a girl) just went back to jail for 5 days and it's his last chance to behave and not mess up probation before he goes away for like 2 years...what can i do to make him not be so ignorant about something so serious..if it helps he just told me he liked me before he went away..he'll be back on tuesday but as i said its his last chance.

Q: OKay i come from a fairly rich family and im about to turn 16, my grandparents are buying me a car and a chose a Mercedes-Benz. So i took the brochure to school the other day to pick out which model i wanted and some of my friends are like "wats u looking at?" and i said "im picking out my car." they were like "ur getting a new Mercedes?" and i said yes and they started yelling about me being a spoiled brat and now some of them wont talk to me anymore... wat shold i do???

Cody

Q: 16/f, my friend, 16/m and I used to be best friends. Then we just stopped talking for awhile, now we're trying to mend our friendship and get back to our bestfriend status. He has come over the past two nights, which is what he used to do when we were best friends. What are some things we could do, I always feel like he gets bored and won't want to come over one day? Anything except sexual things, thank you.

Q: f/13 ok. two of my close friends(both female) despise each other and fight sometimes. i don't know what to do. i dont pick sides. but the thing is, i have a crush on one of them. and well, my main problem here is: how could i get them to get along? or at least tell them what they should do?

help me..

Q: so me and my friend jamie have been friends since kindergarden(now were in 8th grade). but recently she has been ditching me for my friend shannon. i mean shannon isnt a bad person or w/e, but i just want my friend back. i didnt know why she WAS ditching me so i got all mad and just assumed she didnt want to be my friend anymore, bc she was like ALL OVER SHANNON! like her and shannon did EVERYTHING together. so one day in class i drew this really mean picture of her bc she was ditching me. then at that recess someone asked me what was wrong and i told her the story how jamie was ditching me and i called her a biotch. i mean i HAD to! jamie gets mad at me for the gayest things. like on valentines day i didnt get her a present, so she got all mad at me! and that made me cry in class! UGHH she gets on my nerves sometimes. oh and by the way she bacically STOLE everything from me. (for example:im always gosh your so retarted hahaha duh duh ..and now SHE does that) and it has been rumored(by me..duh..well i think this) that she only wants to be my friend bc i know 2 girls that are like popular and stuff and really fun to be around and were like bff and jamie wants to be really close to them too.

today(feb.28)i sent jamie a note saying how sorry i was and how i thought she was ditching me for shannon. idk whats going to happen next, but knowing jamie, she will not forgive until i give her a present or w/e. wow some friend!

i want to still be friends w/ her bc weve been friends for so long and i dont want to ruin that, but shes so rude(when its just me and her) and idk if i can be friends with someone that. if she doesnt forgive me, my life will be even more ruined than it already is. she takes OVER my life. i mean seriously. when its just me and shannon, were like bff and have so much fun, but when jamies around IM LEFT OUT.

and i cant find other friends bc then i would have to like start over with my friendship and stuff.

please help

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