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Hi my name is Alex. Im 17 and going to be a Senior in high school. I am extremely outgoing and spirited. i love to laugh, smile, and have a great time. i am a huge sports fanatic. my friends tell me a lot cuz im a great listener as well as an advice giver, especially on love, family, and friends. hope my advice can affect you in some way :)

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i have so many guy friends not boyfirends but just friends and well no one will ask me out and i think its because i have so many boys as friends abd i asked one guy out and he told me that he would not go out with me because of all my friends and that theres a good chance thats i could cheet on him i was so mad 8( and sad because i knoew that i would never do that and he still never went out with me im going in to a higher grade but its time for me to have a boyfriend but with all my guyfriends i dont think they would .should i stop being friends with all the guys and start acting more girlie or the boyfriends aren't worth it

if you have a bunch of guy friends.. keep them ... girls are vicious friends neways... believe me. eventually one guy will like you. and that other guy was dumb cuz he thought you would cheat on him .. hes not worth your time. be yourself and a guy will like you for who you are. even with all your guy friends. i basically only have guy friends and my b/f is totally fine with it. i used to be the same way. but i was patient and a guy liked me for me and now we are going out. dont stress everything always turns out good in the end if your patient :)

keep your guy friends ... guy friends are so much fun and they usually dont cause drama like girls do :)

hope i helped

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how do i get more guys to be my friends?? i have like none i im not sure if any boy would be my friend i mean ya i do hang out with the popular group or whatever you wnt to call them but they never put me in thier profiles and like i feel left out like if someone hangs out with someone for one night they are automatically their friend but unlike me i take a whole year

two words .... BE YOURSELF. eventaully they will come to you. dont stress about it. im sure your a great person with tons of personalities. make convo and they will come to you. i mostly only have guy friends so im telling you from experience ... be yourself and they will love you for you. and if they dont they there not worth your time :)

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I went away with my friend a couple of weeks ago, and she was being a jerk, and now I don't really wanna be her friend anymore, what do I do?

if your having doubts then y waste your time ?!?!
you dont need friends who make you think so much .. hehe

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OK for the past couple of days i have kind of had feelings for, well my kind of friend. WE have been playing night games for the past couple of days and i know that he likes me by the way he acts. How do give signs that i want to hook up wiht him but it shouldnt meen anything? Anybody know! I rate high for actual answers.

first make sure that you brought up in a convo that you like friends with benefits or no strings attached. if he knows you like that then go in for the kill. mess with him, touch him, etc. if you see that he starts picking up the signs maybe you should repeat the friends w/ benefits thing so he remembers.

hope this helped a lil :)

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i have many friends but they never call me or ask me to hang out. its always me talking to them or calling them or asking them to hang out. i have a boyfriend who ive been with for almost a year and they have kept in touch with me less and less since ive been with him. i really want my friends back and to make new friends. what can i do?

i kno how you feel . i have friends who never call ... im always the one to initate everything. ya it sucks but what can you do?!?! all i do is start hanging out with them and eventually they call you once in a while . sometimes ppl are shy or just 2 busy. never think its you ... or youll end up worrying to much ... and worrying sucks .. believe me :)

hope this helped

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i am always shy around my friends i would say how are you and stuff like that but then we would have nothing else to talk about cause i wouldnt know what to say but i act different around my good friends but i mean for friends that i really dont talk to much do you have any suggestions ???

well take it from someone thats extremely outgoing ... you need to feel confident in yourself. i kno your a great person ... and i kno all your friends kno you r 2 . and everyone you talk to is dying to be your friend. so all you hafta do is bring up something general. like movies, books, music, what they did over the weekend. eventually it will stir up something. and then youll have a good friendship with a lot of different ppl. never be shy to show yourself. be happy with yourself and make sure ppl can get a taste of all the magic you possess .

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