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A while ago, one of my best guy friends told me something in total confidence, and told me not to tell anyone about it. But then at a sleepover, my friends asked if anyone had any secrets that they wanted to just get out in the open. I said I did, so I told them what my guy friend said. Now, I feel like the worst person alive...they swore that they'd never tell anyone, but what if it accidentilly slips out?? I'm scared that no one will ever trust me again. What can I do? (link)
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Ok, dont freak out. Everyone does stuff like that. And depending on how serious this secret is, no one will probably tell.
A posistive out of this - the girls you told about the guy will probably trust you more. Once you have told them something like that they will be more likely to think of you as a person they are in a position to tell things to. I think you'll see your relationship with them strengthen.
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ok,i have two bestfriends Aimee and Vanessa, the thing is both of them live in gigogantic houses,both parents togehter,money,everything that i dont well ok i have the looks and attitude but the thing is i always get jealous.its not good for me to feel this way but its hard not to.I dont want to jeapordise our friendships because their lives are better,but what do i do? i dont want to feel this way!! (link)
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I have this problem as well, my best friend is obscenely rich and I am...well...not. Jealousy is iminent, but it seriously will go away if your friendship is strong enough. Just dont think about it, you are just as good as them, if not better because you dont have things handed to you. Unless their rubbing it in your face, in which case you should just tell them that it bothers you, time will heal this wound.
Also - think about your values some. Their lives are def. not better than yours just because of money. You need to learn to be happy in the life your given. If you can do that, you wont ever have a jelousy problem because you wont be thinking about it.
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