okay so i broke up with my boyfriend the other day and my frineds tell him everything about y i did it and that i told them what we had done. how do start to trust them after they do that i mean they told alot of ppl about what happend and now i feel like everyone looks at me weird. how do i get over it when all my friends did this to me?
it sounds to me like you need some new friends. that was totally inconsiderate of them to say all that. There isn't really a way that you cn trust them again. They betrayed your trust and they probably won't get it back. Explain to them how you feel and then make your decision
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So, I'm in such a wierd place right now, any advice would be great.
18/m
My (first) girlfriend broke up with me a few months back, and she wanted to stay friends(so did I), but she hasn't made a single effort to stay in any part of my life. Not one call, anytime we've talked, it's because I texted her. I haven't even seen her since a couple weeks before we broke up.
I miss talking to her and I miss having a girl, but I don't want her back. Even before she dumped me she was never around, she basically dumped me in her mind and let me know over the phone later.
Part of me wants to still talk, she was my only friend outside of my family, but the other part says 'screw you, I'm worth more than that, if you wanted to be friends maybe try to make an effort'
Am I being an ass because I kinda gave up on trying? I know I deserve better than that, I'm an amazing guy (not conciet,judging from most guys, I'm the nicest guy I've met :p )
Thanks!
Your not being a jerk. Who knows why we girls do what we do. I don't even know, and i am a girl!! She has her own reasons and the best way to understand her is to ask. It is hard i know, i have been in situations like this and it isn't easy. But, if you care about her friendship as much as you say you are than you should definitely talk to her. Explain to her that you really value her friendship and that just because you have a dating history or that you broke up doesn't mean that you want to lose her forever. If this girl doewsn't want that, then it is her loss and she isn't worth it anyway. Maybe she is still hurting or doesn't know how to talk to you now that your not a couple. Communication is the key to any relationship.
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