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Q: Whoever reads this please help!!!!I have this friend who me and my friends are fed up with she always starts drama and to add some stuff she can cry on command to make people feel bad for her!!!!I SWARE!!Ok so she likes this guy and is OBSESSED and he hates her so much...BTW everytime we get in a fight she basically says rude remarks about this guy to us because me and my friend hang out with him alot beacause she is JEALOUS!!!I really need some help. Like and when she feels like being mean she will say a rude remark and when she is trying to be nice she trys to act cute "which never is" and if me and my friends didnt hang out with her she would have none because she is so mean to everyone else!!Then when we talk about "girl stuff" she trys to make her boobs look big cause she has none! And one time she wrote me a note saying how greasy my face was but if you read this please help me!! i NEED HELP LIKE SHOULD I still be friends with her and if not how do i tell her to be nice and not bratty?!?!?!?!?!?!

THanx
MissyMay123

OK OK OK!!!Calm down heres what you do!!!!If its fucking up your life then forget her.She oviresly isnt a true freind.Don't waste time on poeple who don't love you and who are true.And if you want a nice way to tell her to be more nice this what you do:Go somewhere safe(no knifes or anything a crazy girl can get to lol:P)Tell her that she betetr stop with the stupid drama shit and grow up cuz its gettin fing anoying!There you go:).Hope I helped!:)

Q: So i'm in 8th grade, and ive been friends with this girl since the beginning of 6th and when shes with people she knows i dont really talk to, she starts talking really bad crap about me and it always comes back to me! And she says im 'one of her best friends' but she never calls me for help on things, or tells me about her crushes, or anything. And shes liked my best guy friend for over 5 months and told all my other friends but me. And she LOVES stirring up drama at sleepovers or trips. And i honestly dont know what to do anymore! im sick of it! --plus i honestly dont recall doing anything for her to treat me this bad in the first place! what do i do? am i still friends with her or not???

help! =[

Omg i didnt think i would ever meet anyone who had the same problem as me!Urrg it sucks when your suposly true friends backstab you!lol:)Ok this is your options stay freinds with her or dnt be.If your ganna be friends with her then here is what you should do.See her as just a what up freind,where you just talk to her when your bored.Or talk to her tell her what the hell is her probelm and if she starts to act up with you sho her hell no you better than her.you deserve better frinds than that.a friend like me:Plol.i just went threw the same thing a few weeks ago and im actruly happy with out dum freinds like that:).well i hope i helped adn i hope things go great.Look up my I.M name if you wanna talk more.Love,Gaurdain Angel

Q: okay, well anytime me and my friends hangout, just me and her, we have a really really good time. but everytime we invite anothe one of my friends to come hangout with us i'm always the one to get left out.. i really don't understand why.. for ex. the night before last i invited one of my friends over to stay the night and then i was talking to my other friend that i used to be BESTFRIENDS with but we hadn't really hung out in awhile and we went downtown to the shops and they just kinda ditched me.. and like they wouldn't of even ben together if i hadn't invited them both.

- okay, this happens alot with like all of my friends... i don't see what the problem is.
this year, for school were all on diffrent teams, so were not really gonna see eachother except for lunch so i don't know whats going to happen...
and please don't say talk to her about it because i tried that and it just blew up in my face and we got into a HUGE fight, and i really don't like fighting with my "firiends"
-thanks in advance.

Ok listen.They sound like just friedns not true freinds.don't get attached to them or reli on them.They are like your bordem freinds:p you only hangout with them when your bored becuz they truly are not true freinds for you.And i understand where your coming from.i had the same problem.i kinda do still lol:Pbut ya it ticks you off so bad you just wanna urrgg!lol:).But dnt stress it just say to yourself that your better than that.Show them that it aint ganna bother you and if their ganna act messed up forget em.When they come to you for somthing be like no its your problem.You know just to show them that you got feelings that your not their b****lol:).hope i helped you.