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hey guyz so im :.:kelli:.:, and live in ohio... i LoVe talkin* to new and inTerEsTIng people as often as i can on here~ my birthday*s comin up (!) so leave me some love on here! i jus got a new baby brother -->nathan
E-mail: flirterchicky@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: ohio
Occupation: student
Age: 15
AIM: swackcheerchicky
Member Since: July 24, 2004
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I'm 15 years old & get very jealous of my best friend's other friends. I've known her forever and I'm always scared some other girl is going to come along and become her new best friend. It's happened before and it wasn't that great. So now she has this new friend who's taking up all her time & she doesn't even know her that well! I feel like I'm 2nd to her & I'm so left out. Everytime I try to talk to her about it she says I'm being silly or whatever. I don't know what to do or say anymore! (link)
thats happened here before, well not the whole jealous part, but i have lost some good best friends.. but listen, you cant get stuck in the past... everything changes, and you have 2 learn to go with the fLOw.. when i first realized me and my friend were drifting apart, yeah it was sad, but u cant let that get you down, i mean she makes new friends, and you will too.. dont focus too much on winning her back, she can share her time with other people, too.. its not all about you, but be grateful for wut u once had, and all the memories that are stuck in your head.. and also be grateful for what you have now, @ least it didnt turn out like what you see in the movies, or TV shows...yah know? 2 chicks used 2 be best friends back in the day, and then the one gets different friends and becomes all popular, and the other remains a loser with new dorky best friends (take lizzie mcguire for example, lol) so dont let that happen 2 u unless shes bein rude 2 u about it, ok? continue in your friendship with her, but also leave some room for growth with new friends.... and just remember that she*ll always be there for you even tho she has new friends as well

ex oh~ Swackie


okay, well, I think I want to break up with my "internet boyfriend". but I don't want to hurt his feelings, and I don't know how to end it :(

Lilly (link)
hun, you gotta know what you want first.. let him know that you*re thinking of breaking it off and tell him why.. maybe he can relate to you because you both know you*ll never see each other, right? you might hurt his feelings a lil but he*ll def. get over it...just throw the idea out there that its not working 2 great, and if hes smart, he*ll agree with you so he doesnt have 2 be the loser of the two.. that way, maybe he*ll see if as a mutual decision and realize the best way 4 ur relationship 2 go on is as fRieNdZ! let me know how it works out!




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