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This is kind of a long story. So I've been friends with this guy for about 5 or 6 years now. Best friends at that. Well recently I found out he was going to be moving a long way away from here. I've been through so much with him, but now I hardly speak to him and he's moving in less than a week. It all happend so suddenly. I've always had a big group of friends and people that I also consider best friends as well, but he was sort of in a league of his own friendship wise just becuase of everything we've been through. Now I'm always with these other people that he use to be with as well, until we found out he was moving. In the past month I've become so close to two of the people, and so much futher away from him. I don't feel right talking to him anymore, but I feel even worse when I don't. I haven't hung out with him in awhile, and now he's moving. I just don't know what to do or say. Once he's gone it'll be too late but I don't know how to approach the subject now, before it's too late. And the last time we did hang out, every little thing he did seemed bother the he.ll out of me. Which doesn't help my situation at all. Any advice would be greatly appreciated :)

ohmygosh !! im so sorry this is happening !!

well. as much as you dont feel right talking to him, you need to either approach him to talk or call him. you need to discuss that you feel more distant from him and give him your insight on the situation. you need to say how the last time you two hung out that he was making you aggravated and ask why he was acting as he was.

hopefully i was of some help. good luck with that. ! =)

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