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Q: Ok, I'm a 13/F and I'm happy like 24-7. I mean everyone always comes up to me and asks me how I could be so happy all the time. I mean everyone knows me as the "happy peanut" (school nickname don't ask lol) And I mean I am. And I'm always the friend people come to if they have a problem or if they need someone's shoulder to cry on or anything. But I mean lately everything in my life's been going wrong. My dad's left my family, a kid who was like my brother just died. and I mean I don't know how to talk to anyone about it because they always come to me. And like no one else. And I just want to like SCREAM!! I don't know what to do. It's like I've lost controle of my own life and can't get it back together again. I just want someone to know what's going on. The bad stuff. Because someone needs to know or I'm going to go insane. But I just don't know how to tell anyone. I rate 5's for any answer!! Good or bad, long or short. I'm really in some need for advice. Thanks a bundle if you can help =D ♥Samm
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I can understand why you might be afraid to talk to someone about this, and I think i have an answer. First, make a list of the top 5 people that you can trust the most. Some of these people may be the ones that come to you for advice most often. Next, go through the list and try to imagine the situation of you talking about your problems to each person. Choose the person that you felt most comfortable with when you imagined talking to them, and then ask them to come aside from everyone else and have a private discussion. Once you talk to one person about how you feel, it will probably be a lot easier to talk to other people, too.
Hope I helped!xo
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Q: i have this best friend, and all of a sudden we are meeting all these new people who like love her and pay no attention to me. i don't know what to do, but i feel like i'm being cast aside or something. can u help me? pleez
--unloved
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unloved,
ok..does your friend know that you feel this way? because if she doesnt know than how can she help you stop feeling this way. and i bet you she doesnt even know shes doing it. but i think you should tell her and then see if everything works out. if not send me another question
hope i helped `x0x`
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Q: well heres the deal...
my best friend always goes out with my boyfriends after we break up. its the second time in a row and to tell you the truth it is starting o get to me. i feel like a bad friend if i tell her not to go out with them but then again, is it really fair to me that shes taking my "leftovers" is she being a good friend because it doesnt seem so to me. but maybe i might be wrong. i need some advice. also she is walking all over my other best friend and i want it to stop. should we top being friends all together or else how sohuld i work this whole problem out?
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well you've probably heard of the girl code or book and it says a best friend should never go out with your ex because its just wrong, i would tell her that little girl code and make sure she knows what going on and if she acts snippy to you and gets all mean ditch her for a while or until you're over it. since she has to go out with your left overs it clearly means she's desperite and if she's walking over you other bf then tell her to stop and that you dont want to be friends with someone like her.
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Q: Lately, a lot of my frenz have been leaving me out of stuff they they all do together. When i tell them they say sorry we didn't know we were leaving u out, but then they keep doing it. What do u think I should do?
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yea ive had this happen before. you have to really tell them that you feel left out. and if youve done that then you cant let that hurt you and if they keep doing it you just have to keep telling them. but you cant let it get to you.
hope i helped `xox`
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Heyy everyone my name is erica. i got this site from my friend lena so if i dont fully answer your question you can go to her.
i love my camp.. ramah palmer! it is the most amazing this ever. i have many friends and they are all the best! i like house, greys anatomy, and one tree hill. im pretty outgoing and spring is my favorite season. i also love playing field hockey. its my sport and we wear skirts, got a problem? yeahh random stuff...
hope i help you out `xox`
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Website: E-mail: Gender: Female Location: ny Occupation: student Age: 14 AIM: Member Since: January 19, 2006 Answers: 18 Last Update: November 18, 2006 Visitors: 2689
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