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I am home for summer from college and all my frieds, and when i say all i mean literally all my close girlfriends, have gotten boyfriends and it seems they dont want to have anything to do with me because i am single. I am happy for them but i have been spending all my time alone for the past week and a half. I could get a boyfriend too but i dont want to settle id rather wait for the right person becuase i dont think i need to have a boyfriend to be happy( The guys my friends date are really mean to them but its a whole other story). the point is that i dont understand why none of my friends want to put any effort to see me! (link)
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You shouldn't wait for them to approach you, instead you should just try to make new friends. If you have a job, start getting friendlier with the people you work with. Or if you don't have a job then consider getting one for the summer. That way, you'll have something to do for the summer, make money, and not sulk over losing friends. If they don't want to hang out with you then don't make it seem like you're desperate for their friendship, show them that you've moved on and see if they come after you. If they don't, then whatever, they aren't worth it and you'll make better friends.
And I agree with you, don't start going out with someone just to go out with them, wait until you find someone you actually like and want to be with. Otherwise you'll be in a really sticky situation.
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