Well, my name is Amanda and I'm 23. I'm a military wife living in Idaho, althougth I'm from Tennessee. I have a little girl, age four, her name is Kailee. I'm not that old, but I've been through some shit in my short lifetime. I am also a Mary Kay Beauty Consultant! SO I happen to know a lot about skin care.
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Ok well the guy I kinda like I just found out has a girlfriend aww i know im sad... I cant get him out of mind, i have a myspace and hes one of my friends on it cause we go to school together and stuff i mean i didnt just meat him or anything and I use to like always look at his sight and leave him friendly comments and stuff but now the picture thats his main is of him and his girfriend kissing... I respect him and respect the fact that he has a girlfriend and all that cause were good friends and Im happy for him i just want to try to think of him as a really good friend and not get sad when i see thier picture... any advide please help...
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Well, I went through this problem a few years ago.
A really really close friend of mine, we were so close to becoming more than friends, but he was really weird about it. Then one day, he is all in love with a girl that I was also really good friends with. The only thing I could do was be the better person. I could have been vindictive and not hook them up, but I deicded to anyway.
Their relationship didn't work out. But this guy and me, we became close again years later. Just before he was to leave for college 400 miles away. So we didn't advance our relationship. But, at the end of his freshman year, he decided to not go back the next year. We were still close. Then one day, I find out he has a girlfriend. With the same name as me!! HAHA! He starts asking me for sex advice, and love advice and everything else. Because this was his first serious relationship. I'm sure you can imagine how painful this was for me.
But I had to just push the idea of us being like that out of my head. I gave him the best advice I could to all his questions. And I sat back and watched him fall in love with this girl. Heartbroken I just dealt with it.
The only advice I can give you is to let time ride it out. One day you will stop feeling the way you do about him. But until you do, then maybe the best thing you can do for yourself is put distance between you and him. That will at least make the pain easier for you.
Also, you can try telling him how you feel. I know you respect the fact that he has a girlfriend, but you it could give you closure, or something better if you are honest to yourself and honest to him about your feelings.
I hope this helps and I hope you feel better soon.
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I have this freind and she drives me crazy. How do I tell her I no longer want to be her friend without hurting her feelings-
Confused in my underwear* (link)
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Well, honestly, I don't think you'll get the point across to her without hurting her feelings. If she's driving you that nuts, don't worry about fucking hurting her feelings.
Just tell her, "look girl, I gotta tell you that you drive me insane, and I think we should really just not hang out any more."
She'll be upset, but you just have to do what you have to do.
(This is also a hard question to answer without knowing more of the story!)
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