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My name's lexxilu. I'm a really sweet girl, very driven, and lots of fun. I'm 15 and know a lot based on personal experience and by listening to others. Even if I can't give you solid advice, I can usually point you in the right direction. So, if you have any questions feel free to ask, I'm really open to anything!
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I go to an all girls Catholic School, except recently I was accepted into a co-ed boarding school. I'm going to go to the boarding school, except how do I tell all my frieds that I'm leaving them? Even more so, how do I tell them that I won't even be around? (link)
Firstly, congrats on the boarding school. I've always wanted to go to one, but my parents won't let me. haha.

Secondly, tell your friends the truth first of all, but let them know that it's not an easy thing for you either, but that you'll try your hardest to write and stay in communication with them.

Unfortunately, and I speak from personal experience (and you probably know this as well) it's difficult to stay in touch or maintain a good friendship when you aren't around each other all the time. That isn't necessarily something to tell them (and I'm certainly not trying to make you feel any worse about the situation) but keep that in mind, but stay upbeat. Sending an email every once in a while will be really appreciated.

Hope that helped at all... if there's anything more specific you were wondering about, feel free to ask more. I try to do the best I can.

And congratulations again!


Hey. Today is my friend's b-day. He's turning 16, and we've been friends for about 12 or so years. (yeah, it's a lot lol) Well, I kind of don't know what to get him. I'm not sure what he likes. My friend and I have this suggestion. There is a pic of me and him when we were about 4, and since I have doubles, we were thinking about getting a nice picture frame to put it in. Is that a good idea? I'm pretty sure he's the kind of type who would think it's cute. He's kind of a ladies man lol. Do you have any other suggestions? Thanks.
x3 Erin (link)
I think that sounds like a really cute idea for a present.
Also, if you remember a toy he used to like and can find one like it, give that to him as well. For really close friends, a gift basket is nice, especially for a monumental birthday like a 16 or 13 or something. Put together stuff he might like, like chocolate, that picture, a toy that will bring back memories, and stuff like that.

Hope I helped!


I have met this new friend. My bestfriend doesn't like her. I like her. The new friend is mean to my bestfriend but not to me. I want to be friends with both of them. What should i do? (link)
Tell your best friend that you do want to spend quality time with her, and do that, but also spend time with your new friend. Try not to mix the two as often as possible since neither of them will like that.

Tell them both individually that you value their friendships and want to hang out without having someone else there too, and do that. You don't need to hang out with both of them at once, and it'd probably be better if you didnt, so try to avoid that.


New Years Eve, aka tomorrow night is my friend Lisa's birthday. She is throwing a small party that starts at three thirty. My friend Jenny and I want to go to another party that is kind of late at night. Lisa never really articulated when her party was over and doesn't really seem to express interest in late night stuff. So me and Jenny are confused if it's rude to leave her party at 11 or so to go to the other one because we really, really, really don't want to hurt Lisa's feelings. (link)
3:30 pm to 11:00 pm is a long party.

The party will probably be over by then and you'll be perfectly able to get on to the next one... additionally, if the party isn't over (which I highly doubt) you can always politely mention that you've been there since 3 in the afternoon.


My friends and I love hanging out together. We usually meet up at the same place, go and get a milkshake or something then go back to someone's house. The problem is, we're getting bored of doing the same thing all the time. It's winter now and we live in England, it's freezing so we can't do anything outside. Neither of us have much money so we can't go bowling or to the cinema. Does anyone have any ideas of things we could do together? There is about 6 of us. (link)
If you guys are artsy kids, get out old clothes and "doctor" em up. Cut them up, draw on them, etc. Just have fun. Hang out around one of your guys' houses (since it's winter and FREEZING there, I can imagine) and watch movies or bake something. You can run a search on Google.co.uk for what craft ideas are available.

If crafts aren't your thing, come up with a game. Play a board game, even video games.

If you're looking for places to go, try a shopping centre.

Hope I helped.




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