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I don't get it. My best friend we'll call her Jane, is insane nowadays. She used to be like this dork that went to church every Sunday and was so nice and sweet to everyone. Now shes off giving head to every guy she sees and flipping out in class when she doesnt understand what the teacher is saying! She doesn't make sense. I've tried to talk to her about it but she just won't listen. She's crazy now and not too fun to be around. I hate the person she's become. Now she drinks, smokes, and does pot. I HATE IT. I mean i don't like any of that but i don't dislike people because they do but Jane....she pisses me off. Every time I talk to her it seems like she's either flipping out about something or crying about how "terrible" her life is. I just want to like leave her and not be friends with her but i know that this is the time where she probably needs a friend the most. I've been beside her through everything and she thanks me all the time but then turns around and flips out on me. I can't stand her anymore and I don't know what to do. Right now im Just lokking forward to graduation to get away from her. I know it sounds mean but im really not mean, just wicked desperate. Please help me figure out what to do.
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Well this Jane girl is a real freak....ok well try to sit her down or get her alone on like a weekend or something and tell her whats up. If it dont work then i wouldnt walk away from her i would go and get help for her b/c it sound like she needs it. Dont get her like mental help but mayb u could tell her parents and let them know but thats a bit embarrasing to her. Or get a counsler....not a school one b/c they will tell the parents b/c she is harming herself or w/e. soo...get someone to talk to that knows what their doing and mayb telling her parents is the right thing. Do it now before it gets ever worse....and ik she pisses you off but just stick with her to get her help.
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Hi well i need ur advice!!! I just wanted to become friends with this guy I just met and when I went to talk to him , he just looked at me and then looked at his friends then looked at me again and started to cuse me ou t like heck , Please help me , it hurts bad!!!
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well i say that he is a jerk and i guess he doesn't want to get to know you. If your really want to still get to know him then do it when his friends aren't around and yours are so that if he does it again you have back up. He probably did it because he was trying to impress his friends, he heard something about you, or he has a girlfriends and thinks your trying to hook up with him. If i were you i would stay clear away from that ass and find more friends. And yes it does hurt but just try to forget it b/c there are some people that think they are so cool b/c they can diss you but they are just immature. If the same situation happenns and you have no back up and he does then eather get right back at him with a lot of shit or just walk away and tell him to grow up.
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i only have a few real friends that i like to spend time with and 2 of them are going away for the rest of the summer...how do i meet new people so that i won't be bored to death?? i was thinking about getting a job to keep me busy - would that help me meet people? (link)
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you can meet new people anywhere. Getting a job would keep you busy and you could meet new people there to hang with. If you live on a crowded street you could hang out with them. You only say you have a few real friends but mayb you could hangout with your non real friends and get to know them better than before. It is hard to introduce yerself to ppl but thats how to have fun.
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Okay Today I went off on my friends because I thought they were going to say "you are copying us" because they do this and i wanted to so i said i have wanted to do this since i was in 4th grade and i am not copying you. so now they are mad at me and i really wish that they werent. they think i copy them and that I do not know how to deal with people and that i am stupid well at least right now that they are mad at me....
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you shouldn't have went off on them so say sorry. The reasons they are mad at you for like copying them and being stupid are gay reasons. Say your sorry and when your friends then tell them its not 2nd grade so dont get mad at me for "copying you", but say it in a nice way.
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