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Age: 14
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There this guy in my gym class and he's a senior and I'm a freshman. Well I kinda like him and when I would see him in the halls I would tell my friends "oh that's the guy I like", but what I also meant was that I want to get to know him. Someone told him that I like him and well yeah he knows I like him and he knows who I am. I want to talk to him but I'm just so shy you know. So I was thinking that maybe I should just start talking to him. This is what I want to say
HEY YOUR ______(HIS NAME)RIGHT?
WELL I'M ______(MY NAME)
I THINK YOU HEARD THAT I SO-CALLED LIKE YOU, AND WHEN I SAID LIKE I MEANT TO GET TO KNOW YOU. ITS NOT THAT I LIKE YOU CUZ TO LIKE SOMEONE YOU NEED TO KNOW THEM AND I DONT KNOW YOU SO I GUESS ITS JUST A CRUSH?
okay hows that sound? any ideas? how should i start cuz i mean what if hes playin basketball or something i cant just walk up to him and just start talking. WHAT SHOULD I DO!!!!???
PLEASE HELP ME!THANK YOU!!
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Just go up to him when he is like walkin to class or something and just start talking like " YOu did an awesome job playin basketball the other day" or like wow it is like freezing cold outside. You can do that if you are just walkin next to him and just like look out the window and comment on something. Hope this helps- JL
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Well I have a best friend and we haven't spent time together totally for 3 to 4 weeks. She and I have been busy as heck. Twice she spent the night over this over girl's house. She calls her, her best friend too. But she's told me that I’m number one. Well now I’m starting to feel left out because I also know her other best friend and we get along well. I just can't stand them being together hanging out and I’m never invited like when the other girl invited my best friend, Kay, to sleep over. She doesn't even call me that much anymore. I remember like in the beginning of the year that the other girl, eliz, was not in the picture and now she's treating her as she's been there for her like I have and SHE HASN'T! She's now including her in everything of her thoughts. I feel like if she had to choose between me and eliz needed to be helped up off the edge of a cliff she would grab me, but after talk about eliz the whole time. We also go to different schools like I go to high school and they go to junior high. Kay even cried when eliz needed to talk to me and didn't want to talk to Kay secretly. I was pissed on how she cried over her and I thought would she do the same to me. When they recently had a sleepover last Friday and she was showing me pictures of the sleepover and she had a picture of them together with the word "best friends" at the top. I felt my heart break that moment. That sleepover was for a "project" which they just played around the whole time though. I barely see Kay anymore and we live so close like 5 seconds from each other's house that I can see in her windows. But she sees eliz 24/7 though. She's also about to go on a cruise for a week and I won't see her than. I wanted to spend this time with her. I'm wondering if she even cares about me anymore really. My friendship love for her is fading. She's even keeping secrets from me like letting that eliz girl know before me and she promised she wouldn't do that in the beginning. She's acting different too and I don't like it. She tells me I’m totally #1, but the way she's been equaling me to this eliz chick that thought sounds more and more false to me. I've known her for 3 years and she's known her for 1 and a half! She treats me like she would treat her. I'm not included on any that they do and I hate that. Also my other friends when we get together I try to get Kay to go quick. She didn’t even attempt to have me come along. I don’t know what to do about this. Am I being unreasonable or totally fair and have a right to be a little ticked? Please help!! (link)
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Ohh my gosh that sounds like exactly what I am going through right now with one of my best friends!What I have been trying to do is just when I see her go up to her and just start talking about stuff. Just what ever comes into your mind. Like when i'm walkin down the hall and I see her, I run into her and say "Ohh my gosh I'm so sorry couldn't see you there" And also make and effort to invite her over to your house so you and her can jsut talk and hang out like you used to. and yes you totally have the right to think that the other girl is taking your place.I know that sometimes i kinda just want to smack the other girl who is steeling my best friend! But that wouldn't be a wise choice if you ask me! Hope this helps JL
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alright, well i had this bestfriend for a while now and i thought there was trust in it until recently she just randomly called me and started screaming her head off at me and threatening me and saying that ive been "running my mouth" about her. and when i was like "what are you talking about?" she hung up.. so i went down the street to where she was and it turned out that everyone got drunk that night and some one told her that i said that she wanted to a have sex with john.. but i didnt and she just wont believe me.. she would not listen to me.. she just kept screaming at me and i was screaming back that i never said that and then she screamed back "bull!!" but i really DID NOT SAY ANYTHING LIKE THAT.. i mean she was my BESTFRIEND i dont do that to my bestfriends!! one thing i know i am is a good friend and all of a sudden i'm being accused of something i never did. it gotten to a point where i had to push her and we almost got into a fight if it hadnt been for my friend danielles getting in the middle of us.. i kept on saying to her "your going to regret this so much when u realize what an idoit you are" but she is so set on me talking about her and i'm so set on making her believe me when i said i never did.. no one has seen her since then.. how do i get her to believe me?? (link)
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Well i guess since talking to her about it is out of the question maybe you should try talking to some of teh people who were at this party thing and ask them if you were even there and then have them talk to her. Hope everything works out great!
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yeah so in some classes i hang out with these people that i'm not really friends with cause idon't have any of my friends in there.. i'm a really shy person so i don't really talk, just sit there you know.. it's easier if i were with just one person- but i'm not.. i'm with a group of people who are already friends.. i don't wanna like seem annoying/ weird and not want them to like me so that they don't hang out with me.. i'm pretty sure they won't not like me but i just can't get that threw my head... i seem very quiet shy and boring i think and i don't want that.. but NOTHING comes to mind of what to say to them at all!
how can i become friends with these people and how can i talk to themm? can you give me some tips that don't make me seem like a loser like talk about the weather??
Thanks i'll love you forever if you help me (link)
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Just maybe add little things to the conversation like if they are talking about school and maybe the assignment that you had in that class. Maybe about the latest football or bball game. Just be really nice and maybe look up a joke or two on the internet and then you can say hey wanna her a joke like say 2 pretzels were walking down the street and one was a salted. Hope it all works out great!
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I was just wondering, do y'all spend more time with your bf/gf or with your friends? (link)
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My boyfriend is also friends with my good friends so we usually go watch a movie and then go eat chinese food and have a great time
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