Ok, I have a lot of guy friends so if you need friendship with guy help I can easily do that. Sorry but Im not really into the sex topic since im at a young age so I cant really give good advice. Yes I do ask for advice for what im giving advice but thats because its...... I dunno has to do with one main guy and everyones reaction to him. But if you need tips for getting guy friends ask me. I only have tons of girl friends and about 17 guy friends.
I can help with popularity questions too. But for all you people facinated with this topic popularity actually isnt the greatest thing ever and can sometimes be very upsetting.
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Hi mary thank you for the advice but can i ask you wat is your last name .....and is it werre cuz if it is lol mary its me emily schultz ... (link)
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lmfao I knew it was you :P That was why i signed it hahaha see I could tell by your first sentence it was deff you writing it. haha so i had to write something
LOVES YA
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Mary
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There is this guy who I'm pretty sure likes me,
but the thing is, I really LIKE him.
He makes me nervous and in a good way.
I usually know what to say, and am a veryopen person to people, but not him.
How can I show him I like him without flat out saying it? (link)
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Just flirt. Maybe even joke around sometimes and say your practically going out. Give him ideas amd flirt alot. He should get it. Always smile around him and be cheery and he should get the point. Good luck and I hope you two get together :)
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my bff is a guy~wev ben bffs since 5th grade~my friend told him i liked him and he likes me to~im gothic but i hug every1 even him so his mom wont let him see me or even talk~she doesnt want girls huggin him and she hates anyone who wears black now~i dyed my hair brown~i had red streaks w/ black hair~i havent been wearin as much black clothes and i never even wore tht much black~so i still cant even see or talk to him~she hates everything about me now tht she found out i like him and he likes me~she never used to~now she hates my clothes hair music jewelery and my personality (link)
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ouch. well somehow you have to talk to his mom and tell her how you guys are best friends and how she shouldn't try to take him away from you. If your worried about it maybe ask your mom to talk to her for you. Mom's tend to agree and this way his mother is talking to someone she respects to some degree. If she still rejects you then maybe meet up with him privately like at school or the mall like you do. I really think you should try to get on his mother's good side. Maybe your bff can tell you something that you have in common with his mother for you to strike up a positive conversation. Then gradually go to the point of how you think its unfair for her to judge you and how you have been bff's for a very long time. If shes soo worried about hugging dont hug him infront of the woman. I hug everyone too but never a guy im not going out with infront of a parent. You really need to get this woman to listen!
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I really just need someone to talk to, my best friends mad at me and I sadly, have no one else to talk to. I'm under a world of stress. I don't know what to do. (link)
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just inbox me your problems ill talk to you i know what your going through
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Hi, that question I wrote was ages ago, and since then I've got more confidence and I don't care about being popular anymore, but, just ut of curiosity, how did you do it~ (link)
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lol. umm ok first I was a looser. But then I got to meet one girl from the popular clique and she introduced me to everyone else. Then at first I was like put under intitiation and they teased me about things and tried to see if I would crack. I didnt I stayed strong and wouldnt let them see any weakness. Then they decided I was ok and we started to hang out. It was alot of fun and they quickly got to meet the real me and I quickly got to meet the real them Many popular girls are not mean but they give off that apperence as a way to stay strong. And you know what, the main reason I got IN was by being nice they said they loved how I wasnt a sterotype. Now, I rule in a way but with kindness instead of being mean. Its fun and really being popular truely is being yourself.
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I reallyy need your help...
this is a huge mix of friendship & love life.
Read this, if you can help me on those two things.
I can't deal with this alone, help.
This is the last year in my school, & then I go to highschool. I go to a catholic school, so therefore, I've been friends with the same people since basically kindergarten. & the 8 of us, have been unceperable. [sp? i know. lol] Anyways, this year, has been sooo weird. I feel so lost, like I lost everyone. All my friends basically, started all new friends. I don't get it, did I miss something? Some memo where you ditch your old friends, & make all new ones? These two girls, who have kinda always in my group, but like more popularer, all of a sudden keep talking to me & calling me. & inviting me to things. I don't return their phone calls much, because I'm so shy. Okay, wait stop.. now were gonna go like back in time for a second,,,, [lol that sounded gay, but i didn't know how else to word it.]
If this would have been a couple months ago, & they would have called me & stuff, I would have called them back INSTANTLY. & stuff, but that time, was when i had MAJOR confidence, & basically ruled the grade. But, that was only because of two boys. The one, james, he was there for me all the time, he helped me with every love problem, every friend problem, & everything. He would always be there for me, he was practically my life line. I depened on him. He ended up like falling inlove with me, seriouslyy. Like, to the point where he wanted to do things.. where I wasn't ready for. I really believe I loved him too, I still believe I do. The only thing is, he wanted to do things.. I didn't want to. He got mad at me, & hasn't talked to me since. That dropped a percentage of my confidence. Because of him being gone, I didn't have anyone to tell my really personal stuff, that only he could help with.
Now, at the time I still had my other guy friend, Nick. Hes nowhere near the serious type, so he couldn't help me with that stuff. But, he was my like, person who kept my head up high, basically. He like always told me, how great I was & always had reasons for every time I said, how? & stuff like that. He ended up getting cancer, & becoming very sick.. & dieing.
There went him.
Hold up, another thing, to put me down.
Now I'm up to 3 things, to have my head looking at the ground.
But, of course theres more.
Now that all my friends that are girls, that are spliting up, it sucks even more. I have no one to turn to. & nobody understands. In school I'm always happy, & always smiling. But, i'm more then just your average 14 year old girl. I have alot of problems, not like mental or something.. just, I can't deal with all this alone. Its only been like 4 months. Thats alot to go through, in 4 months. Alot of friendships to lose. I keep telling myself to move on, but its so hard.
please help me, please. (link)
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ok, this is exactly what's happening to me. Like im going to high school next year and last year I had like 3 best girl friends and 2 best guy friends. This year the girls are all spliting up like one of them rules the school and has turned into a total B***h. And I had a crush on my best guy friend and he doesnt talk to me now that he found out.
Ok my advice is to make one solid friend you can trust with this. I actually learned this tonight. At school I laugh everything off but at home im like all upset and worried and stuff. The easiest way to learn who to talk to on MSN. Tell everyone a tiny peice about what you are going through and then see what they say. People do understand even though it seems like they dont. I understand and people at your school will two. In my opinion if you are going to trust anyone let it be a guy. Girls have the tendency to gossip and say stuff they dont mean while many guys are more sincere and dont really like to gossip. They also see girls faults much more. Once you feel you can talk to someone you will feel so much better. At school stay happy and all but lets say people bug you and you get upset dont be afraid to tell them off. Like the guy I trust is actually my best friends boyfriend (i know weird) and I get bugged alot like jokingly and he says that people will continue to bug,make fun, or try to hurt you if they think your weak. You have to show them you can fight back, like verbally. Also try hanging out with the other groups and evemn try getting your friends together so we relize the good old days. Please leave me a comment and drop a question in my inbox anytime we are going through alot of the same things so id really like to help you out.
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im really popular now
but im so scared that im not gonna be throughout highschool.
Ive been pretty popular for a few years, im just scared
and i know its not all about being popular
but once you get used to it, then its hard to not be it.
help?? (link)
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I know exactly how you feel. At this moment I am really popular but im going into high school next year and the other popular girls already know the popular group in high school except me. I am also worried about it alot but still just remember to try and keep your friends. Dont backstab people or gossip or else it could ruin it forever. Only a few girls (hopefilly npot you) reach popularity by being a bitch. Id you keep your friends and dont butt into peoples buisness youll be fine....
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I have 3 friends, REALLLY good friends, and we all go to the same skool and in the same class. were besties. anyway, those 3 friends live pretty close to each other, and i live a little farther away, so they r always doing things without me (shopping, movies, hanging out ect.) and leaving me out. I know theyre not doing it on purpouse, but it still REALLY hurts becuase they talk about it infront of my face. Ive tried to talk to them about it, but they just get REALLY mad. what should i do? (link)
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I know what you mean. I also have three best friends and I live in a different town. Just try telling them again. What I have done is whenever they plan to hang out or go to the movies they will call me to tell me them we arrange for someone to give me a drive so I dont feel left out. It really helps and makes you feel more included. I know it hurts but just try out my way and mayve theyll agree and itll stop hurting.
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I want more guy friends. How do I talk to them more and bring up conversations and just like say stuff and be comfortable and flirt? Dont say like "be yourself" I want real advice . THx! (link)
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Ok almost all my friends are guys so heres my tips:
Try to talk to them privatly at first. If you go up to them when their around their friends they may ignore you or bug u. Some guys are really sweet when u catch them alone
Talk to them like you would a girl. Dont act too giddy or else youll creep them out.
Flirting Tip: Dont flirt to quickly. Get to know them. Then do odd things like give them a little shove when they say something mean. Dont flirt to over the top or infront of the gossip queen. If you do trust me there are terrible consequences!
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