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i live in this very small town and im 14 and so is jessica, we've been goodfriennds since we were 10 and she was always sort of an ugly girl, but now shes really gorgeus, shes fit into her body, pretty face, killer body.. she has the whole package. i love her becuz shed never ditch me and shes still the same but now shes been seeing or hangin out with older guys, some 18, some 21, or 23. and i mean if she can do it good for her but i hungout with her, this 22 year old john and his friend vince and i mean we rented a hotel and her and john went in but me and vince stayed in the car and we smoked and kind of hookedup, im getting feelinds for him and i know hes older but is it ok? she didnt make me like him or anything

It's your choice, but here's what I think...
He's 22. Your 14. The age difference is a lot. He's probably about to finish college...you're just entering high school. Even if you like him and he likes you, your interests may change. He'll have to get a job soon...
My uncle and aunt have a big age difference between them, and to tell you the truth, they aren't doing so great. He's way older than her, and wants to settle down and relax...she's still got the mindset of 'its time to partayyyy!' Their age difference sets them apart.
So, if you really like the guy, and he likes you, go ahead, but just know that he might be taking advantage of you...and besides, maybe you'll find someone AWESOME that's closer to your own age.

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