my name is candy and ive decided 2 give other ppl advice...everybody i know comes 2 me 4 help and thought maybe other ppl could use my advice i will only tell u what i think and how i feel and never tell anyone what they should do or not do
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I had this friend a few years ago and we were really, really close. Things were going fine and dandy and then she started doing these weird things. She started dating a guy that was totally using her (but I really don't know for what exactly). He got her into smoking weed a lot and taking prescription pain pills when he came over to her house on the weekends. He was constantly lying to her about she even found scratch marks on his back from a person. He finally stopped coming over to her house and talking to her and she went crazy, stalked him for awhile, and then moved on to make him jealous. She even thought about becoming a lesbian!
So, she found a guy (from MySpace) that knew the first guy and she started talking with him even though he had a girlfriend. They got together, drank a lot, and had sex in the woods one night. From there on out she stopped talking to ME!
Well, she met my boyfriend and it became a real mess. He doesn't like cigarette smoke and so he asked her, very politely, to please not smoke while he was in the room. She seemed OK with it and before we left that evening I pulled her aside and asked if she thought he was a good guy and she gave me the thumbs up. Then, she stopped answering my calls and started spreading LIES about me (like that I smoke)! I don't know why! She didn't tell ME anything!
Time passed and I heard she was going to marry the guy she met on MySpace. I tried to contact her again about it because we were best friends so that maybe I could see her at the wedding. She freaked out and lied about it, blocked me on myspace and on the phone, and forgot about me. She married that guy the next week.
Personally, I think she dropped me out of her life because I knew all of her dirty secrets. I know so much about the girl I could literally crush her relationship in the blink of an eye. I wouldn't do that though. I'm not that kind of person...but maybe she was afraid she'd make me mad and I would tell it all or something?
Now she sends me a message and wants to be friends. She didn't say anything about being "sorry" or how things went down. What do I do? Should I forgive her insane actions, forget about the drama, and be friends again? (link)
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ok first ....an all around seem to be happy person ...wont all the sudden start doing weird things ...like smoking pot,taking pills,stalking a guy,and then plot on making him jealous....did something bad happen in her life right before all this started .....because it seem like something deeper than just meeting the wrong guy ...if you still want to be here friend i say go for it ...sounds like she could use a good friend you might be able to help her because it does sound like more than the wrong guy thing .......alot of women fall for the wrong guy when things arent going right in there life ......i understand she pushed you out of her life but this could be her reaching out for help ....just dont let her mistake your kindness for anything other than that
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